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kyubichan
02-22-2007, 01:38 AM
I know many of us love anime for the surreal worlds it introduces us to: supernatural beings, good-looking girly men and perfect love stories all exist in worlds different from ours. However, anime is still loosely based in the real world and on the personal experiences of those who create it.

My question is, is there an anime which you can closely relate to your own life? Or perhaps, there is an anime character that reminds you of someone you know? Maybe your highschool teacher was a bit like Onizuka, or you're working in the military under a major like Kusanagi? O.o

Feel free to share it here.

And don't hold back those tears.

(Note to mods: Please move this if need be.)

Milkymagic
02-22-2007, 02:16 AM
Alright, Kyubi made thread! And it's a subject that I would love to talk about, given I've been discussing what people love about anime, it's nice to think about what people recognize in real life that resembles anime.

First I'll address myself:

Shiro from The Wings of Honneamise definitely resembles where I'm at right now psychologically, constantly wondering what my purpose is in life, and I've been trying new things to test myself now and again (within reason naturally!).

My less serious side is absolute Kintaro Oe from Golden Boy all the way, I can belt out some insane dialogue if need be, and I just flat out choose to mix acting mature and acting stupid because it is in my human nature to do so. Plus once in a while, I can have a pretty gross sense of humor.

And finally I think Space Butler from Excel Saga describes the way I picture myself in proportion to the world, an awesome side character that adds to the whole production in a quiet way, as I try to put in my two-cents but not stand out in crowds too much.

Now for some more interesting viewpoints!

My brother is probably like Ri Kohran from Sakura Wars because he is knowledgable, but finds himself with a few failed experiements. :p

I had a teacher that resembled Yukari Tanizaki from Azumanga Daioh, of course he was male, and our Psychology teacher on top of that. In short, I thought he was cool!

My father is kind of like Nabeshin from Excel Saga in that he hardly makes any freaking sense in what he does, but that's the beauty of the man when I say that!

The last one I can think of is my sister, who came off as Dejiko from DiGi Charat because of her competitive nature, it's always so much fun to play video games with her, even if I happen to win in all of them. :D

Sanda
02-22-2007, 02:38 AM
I'd love to give a great answer here, but I feel it's quite impossible for me to do so.

I've been sitting here, in front of the computer, trying to come up with something, however I've realised that I can't and the main reason is that: I live in the Ocident and our society is so different from that of the Orient.

In Japanese animation they usually put a lot of their culture, their ways, and although this is part of why I love anime (being able to experience a different cultural perspective of life) it is their essence that I see, not mine.

I could relate to a character like Milky did, but then I've already posted in a thread about that!

kyubichan
02-22-2007, 02:47 AM
The last one I can think of is my sister, who came off as Dejiko from DiGi Charat because of her competitive nature, it's always so much fun to play video games with her, even if I happen to win in all of them. :D

Watch out for those eyebeams!

Oh, and Kintaro = inner Milky? O.o I always thought that the world would end if, by some trick of fate, you ever did something silly...

EDIT:

Aa~ I understand what you mean, Sanda. Even if an anime is about something "western", there's always a subtle "eastern" tone to it, usually in the form of in-jokes and principles.

Milkymagic
02-22-2007, 03:57 AM
Watch out for those eyebeams!

Oh, and Kintaro = inner Milky? O.o I always thought that the world would end if, by some trick of fate, you ever did something silly...

EDIT:

Aa~ I understand what you mean, Sanda. Even if an anime is about something "western", there's always a subtle "eastern" tone to it, usually in the form of in-jokes and principles.

Would it wrong to assume I'm in the process of ending the world as we speak? :D

And Sanda does make a good point, I suppose I did state most of the above in my Appreciated Anime Characters thread, but at least there's added material for those who wanted something even more personal.

As far as truly relating, I suppose it is indeed not entirely easy to say, being their culture is different than ours. I also notice many of their wordplay jokes not translating so well in our country, and the way some characters behave is not entirely western in some cases.

Still, I'd like to think that anime has translated a broader message to myself, but maybe one of adventure and philosophy alike. But this is something I'll have to think harder about before I come up with anything more.

Dark Lord
02-22-2007, 04:46 AM
I couldn't compare my life to an anime because its much too unique and too damn original. Though certain parts of it can be compared to some anime such as:
I have a classmate who acts like Tamayo Kizaki from Angelic Layer due to the fact that he has a tendency to launch sudden attacks on me from behind. Luckily, I eventually trained myself to counter his attacks. That same classmate is also like Sumomo from Chobits because he's quite a hyperactive fellow, to my annoyance.

I'll post more when something else comes into mind...

Two-twenty
02-22-2007, 05:25 AM
Personality, interests, appearance, it's goddamn freaky how similar my sister is to Nana Osaki from Nana. For me, I saw a bit of myself in Asaba's character from His and Her Circumstances.

Apart from these, nothing else really comes to mind.

Sanda
02-22-2007, 05:30 AM
This thread is getting awfully similar to this other one:

http://www.animeacademy.com/forums/showthread.php?t=22277&page=1

Pachinko
02-22-2007, 05:42 AM
I'm sure I've said this somewhere, but it's got to be Paradise Kiss, right down to the romantic troubles, the fashion, and the trying to be successful in school.

kyubichan
02-22-2007, 06:14 AM
This thread is getting awfully similar to this other one:

http://www.animeacademy.com/forums/showthread.php?t=22277&page=1

Sad but true~ but I'm not asking for something that describes an individual per se... you people can be creative and maybe describe a particular anime episode which reminds you of a certain event in your life ^^

Zabuza-Sama
02-22-2007, 07:00 AM
I mostly Identify with Takayuki Narumi from Kimi ga Nozomu Eien.
Yeah, he was pretty annoying when he didn't make up his mind about whom he really loves, but I Kind of connected with his feeling, it ain't easy choosing between to girls you like especially when they were best friends and one of them just survived a car accident.
So yeah, I really liked that seres, especially because it was super realistic.

Milkymagic
02-22-2007, 07:15 AM
Sad but true~ but I'm not asking for something that describes an individual per se... you people can be creative and maybe describe a particular anime episode which reminds you of a certain event in your life ^^

Sorry about that, I'll try harder, but at least my response was more insightful this time around than with that other thread (so it wasn't wasting anyone's time).

I'll talk about two interesting topics pertaining anime and real life:

1. As far as Kyubi challenging us to a day that resembled anime, I can remember one. There was an episode in Kare Kano in which Yukino and her new friends (after being with Arima long enough) were going to see a movie together. They also went out to eat and had an unusual sleepover experience.

I remember seeing a movie with some friends, and then after acting like complete goofballs (I believe I was more like Aya if I had a say) and embarassing each other after much laid-back goodness. As the day rolled on, the plans shifted from a mere hangout to a sleepover at our place, and a lot of it had to do with family issues amusingly enough. Unfortunately, I can't remember much else, but that's what childhood memories are all about I guess...

2. And now, I'll even talk about a day that resembles an anime I'd like to live, because it's that damn funny! xD

I would love to seriously go into the world of Project A-ko and start throwing robots all over the place as an A-ko type character, now that would be entertaining. If people want more realism, I suppose (once again) I'd like to be Kintaro Oe for a day and go across the country seeking jobs and meeting women in the process. I would also be an incredible goofball just to add to the mood! :p

Mana
02-22-2007, 07:30 AM
Do you remember that one episode of Cool Devices where.... oops, sorry, that's pretty a bit too NSFW.

Hmmm.... lesse... wow, I really don't watch too many realistic anime. I'll have to think on it and come back.

However, speaking as a mod, I'd rather not close this, as it does have the potential for some interesting conversation. However, please respect Kyubi's wishes. Let's keep this more based on personal experiences and less like characters who you feel are similar to yourself.

Milkymagic
02-22-2007, 07:44 AM
Do you remember that one episode of Cool Devices where.... oops, sorry, that's pretty a bit too NSFW.

Well if we're going to add hentai into the mix...that doesn't help somebody like me! xD

If I were truly a man who's lived the life of a character in a hentai, I would be speechless and stupified.

Hmmm.... lesse... wow, I really don't watch too many realistic anime. I'll have to think on it and come back.

However, speaking as a mod, I'd rather not close this, as it does have the potential for some interesting conversation. However, please respect Kyubi's wishes. Let's keep this more based on personal experiences and less like characters who you feel are similar to yourself.

I'll probably try even harder, but would you say my last post did a decent job at addressing the issue?

Even so, I'm sure something like Only Yesterday did a good job at addressing childhoods thereof.

I was merely an observer of all the fads my whole family went through, so maybe I could dig up something, like how everyone around me liked "Grunge Music" as they'd say (and I'd still interpet it as if it were just music as a kid).

Still, I agree it is difficult, but this is a subject that's definitely worth conversation!

Dark Lord
02-22-2007, 08:01 AM
Well, no violation for me because I was describing my classmate :p

Anyway, I have an acquaintance who has no mother due to the fact that she was murdered when he was still young. To make things worse, his dad is the prime suspect to the murder. Now, he struggles to realize the truth about his mom's death...

Sounds like someone with a tragic past to me... Doesn't that seem anime-ish in a way?

Milkymagic
02-22-2007, 08:10 AM
Well, no violation for me because I was describing my classmate :p

Anyway, I have an acquaintance who has no mother due to the fact that she was murdered when he was still young. To make things worse, his dad is the prime suspect to the murder. Now, he struggles to realize the truth about his mom's death...

Sounds like someone with a tragic past to me... Doesn't that seem anime-ish in a way?

Sorry to hear what this person's going through, hopefully they're doing okay.

It does seem like a storyline that could be a Satoshi Kon favorite, but I think it would be best to make sure you can state an actual anime title that a situation pertains to, rather than stuff that's anime-themed.

Just in case! :D

laborpilot86
02-22-2007, 08:28 AM
My dad is a sort of combo of Jet Black and Onizuka, with Jet's love of good food, great music and the desire for justice mixed in with Onizuka's rebellious streak and dedecation to his students(he's been a teacher at several levals for well over 30 years)...

My uncle shares some traits with Goto and Togusa. He's whip smart, but hides it with silly jokes(Goto), while working real hard in a rapidly changing field to support his family[he's an architect who wasn't very good at math] with something of the Everyman about his in his taste in food and the like(Togusa)

My sisters are a lot like Noa Izumi and Kanuka Clancy, always competing with each other. My eldest sister can be as uptight and opionioinated(Kanuka), while my elder sister[i'm the baby of the family] has a biting sense of humor mixed with a love of things that she enjoys. My elder sister does share a commanding streak with Kusunagi, though.

kyubichan
02-22-2007, 08:58 AM
Nice to see that things are picking up pace ^^

For anyone who's going to post later on, please read some of the previous posts. You don't have to find an anime that is exactly like your personal experience, or an anime character that is exactly like someone you know. There may just be some qualities that they share, or it may be something that made you go "Oh, I've seen this before", or vice versa.

It also doesn't have to be a "realistic" anime. If you're incredibly imaginative, maybe you can find a way to compare Dragonball to your prom night O.o

...

And Dark_Lord, on that note, my grandmother's cousin killed my uncle.

Mana
02-22-2007, 09:01 AM
It also doesn't have to be a "realistic" anime. If you're incredibly imaginative, maybe you can find a way to compare Dragonball to your prom night O.o

I didn't go to prom. I opted out of going to prom in favour of attending an anime convention.

So, I suppose, Dragonball is rather similar to my prom night... in a manner of speaking.... ._.;

kyubichan
02-22-2007, 09:10 AM
Sadly, attending the prom was compulsory at my high school. It was one of those awful experiences of my life. It was like that Escaflowne movie, when I was forced into a world that I had no idea about and all eyes were on me. I was a candidate for Miss Prom. * insert expletive here*

Milkymagic
02-22-2007, 09:15 AM
I didn't go to prom. I opted out of going to prom in favour of attending an anime convention.

So, I suppose, Dragonball is rather similar to my prom night... in a manner of speaking.... ._.;

Dancing with Goku, or dancing with Billy Joe the high school quarterback who was also the most popular kid in school? I personally think a SSJ will net any fine lady more points with her friends! ^_^

Nice to see that things are picking up pace ^^

For anyone who's going to post later on, please read some of the previous posts. You don't have to find an anime that is exactly like your personal experience, or an anime character that is exactly like someone you know. There may just be some qualities that they share, or it may be something that made you go "Oh, I've seen this before", or vice versa.

It also doesn't have to be a "realistic" anime. If you're incredibly imaginative, maybe you can find a way to compare Dragonball to your prom night O.o

Excellent! Then I shall compose some nice "unrealistic" comparisons in due time, that will definitely add more fun to the mix! :D

And Dark_Lord, on that note, my grandmother's cousin killed my uncle.

Anything ol' Milky can do to help this? That's sad to hear. :(

Sadly, attending the prom was compulsory at my high school. It was one of those awful experiences of my life. It was like that Escaflowne movie, when I was forced into a world that I had no idea about and all eyes were on me. I was a candidate for Miss Prom. * insert expletive here*

High School in general felt like The Royal Space Force from the Wings of Honneamise, there were a lot of flunkies who didn't really feel they belonged anywhere in my class. I was just one of the many confused students from that group, as I'm always wondering what the heck to do with myself. Y'know? :D

kyubichan
02-22-2007, 09:24 AM
Anything ol' Milky can do to help this? That's sad to hear. :(



Well, victim was my favorite uncle. But he is a bit of a whacko. He tried to kill us and my grandma as well. Some said it served him right that he got off-ed, but really, no one deserves to die. Okay you can object to that.



High School in general felt like The Royal Space Force from the Wings of Honneamise, there were a lot of flunkies who didn't really feel they belonged anywhere in my class. I was just one of the many confused students from that group, as I'm always wondering what the heck to do with myself. Y'know? :D

I knew exactly who I was. I was with the smart kids, I was part of the school paper's staff, and I liked anime and videogames, but was never ever picked on for everyone feared my wrath. But that darn prom night, I was turned to a girl! A girl, I tell yah! I was like a fish out of water!

Mana
02-22-2007, 09:26 AM
So, Kyubi, prom night for you was kind of akin to Ranma 1/2? :D

I went to a crazy, elitist all girls Catholic school, kind of like the Lobelia girls from Ouran. >.>;

kyubichan
02-22-2007, 09:34 AM
Come to think of it, you're right, Mana... O.o

It was a devious plan! Someone pushed me into that cursed spring, I tells yah! I was never the same again... I'm not afraid of cats though <.<

Oh, and are you sure your school was like the one in Ouran's, not Utena? XD

Mana
02-22-2007, 09:35 AM
Well, Utena's school's not all female. Come to think of it, I probably would have done better had I gone to Ohtori Academy...

Milkymagic
02-22-2007, 09:46 AM
I knew exactly who I was. I was with the smart kids, I was part of the school paper's staff, and I liked anime and videogames, but was never ever picked on for everyone feared my wrath. But that darn prom night, I was turned to a girl! A girl, I tell yah! I was like a fish out of water!

As far as school is concerned, I did work for the school paper for a year, in a previous thread I even mentioned the article I did on anime for it. I didn't do too badly in school, though I only had one friend who was really smart (which means I technically was an outcast of sorts).


I went to a crazy, elitist all girls Catholic school, kind of like the Lobelia girls from Ouran. >.>;

Wow, running away to a convention sounds like a good idea when you put that into perspective.

kyubichan
02-22-2007, 10:04 AM
Whoa, right O.o

All girl's school + prom night = what the heck?! XD

Okay let's get back on track... otherwise we'll get whipped! and put on someone's coffee

My college life now is going exactly how I want things to go. The reason I've been watching Bleach, despite its being rather annoying at some points, is that it reminds me a lot of what goes on everyday. Well, in my life, at least, and without the shinigami part, of course. You would think that people would grow up once they reach college, but it seems that the opposite is happening here. Possibly due to the sheer abundance of telenovelas in our local channels, girls giggle at the sight of anything that resembles a man, and guys grab anything that resembles boobs.

However, strangely enough, my relationship with my guy-friends resemble that of Rukia's and Orihime's friendship with the guys from Bleach. There are the occasional "awkward" situations, but for the most part, none of them hit on me and vice versa, jokes are exchanged without nervous glances darting everwhere, etc. It's always been hard to compare my "relationships/friendships" to anything in the anime world, but I can safely say, Bleach is the only anime I've seen that closely resembles this aspect of my life.

Mouse
02-22-2007, 12:53 PM
When I was little I used to daydream that my life was more like Lum's from Urusei Yatsura. But then, I just wanted to be able to fly and electric shock people. :/

I can't really think of any show that has ever touched me on a real life level though. And I have to agree with Sanda and her point about the differences in cultures. Even with shows like Kare Kano, Honey & Clover (guessing as I've never watched past the first eps), or Genshiken that are more grounded in realism, nothing pops as being relative to any of my experiences.

To try and add something to the topic, however, I'm going to go out on a limb here and say the closest I can come up with would be from the beginning of Spirited Away when Chihiro and her parents are trying to find their new home. Having moved, myself, at a young age, I know that feeling of leaving your classmates, friends, and your entire world as you know it behind. And I know that conversation with your parents that are bright and optimistic telling you it will be an adventure. Well, we never stopped at any old (or new) theme parks along the way and my adventure was nothing but cornfields and cow pastures. :(

Sayonara IN!!!

KiraraKim
02-22-2007, 01:08 PM
I can honestly say no anime has represented my real life. That is why I watch anime I like to escape reality. :D

However parts of Honey & Clover really rang true for me. Especially Takamoto's whole finding his self. I could really identify with him. Although I wouldn't say my college experience was exactly like Honey & Clover.

Another anime that made me feel nostalgia was Azumanga Diaoh. Although it was sort of false nostalgia because I felt my high school was a little bit more worldly than what was depicted in Azumanga Daioh. Although I can say my gym experiences were similar to what Chiyo and Osaka went through.

My neighbor Totoro made me wish I could revisit my Childhood. But again I never grew up in the countryside (I wish I had though.)

Ieyasu
02-22-2007, 01:09 PM
My life is like Bible Black put on endless loop
I wish

zarahf
02-22-2007, 04:26 PM
While I wield no special Paper Master abilities my life shares certain aspects of ROD. Mainly that I am a huge bibiophile. I am seriously thinking of making my decorating sceme as simple as to see how many surfaces I can cover with books. I can, and as often as possible, do pass hours and hours and hours wihout moving more than is necissary to turn a page. I find starting a new book extremely exciting and finishing one a little of a loss.

laffinizluv
02-22-2007, 06:42 PM
I've always related to Sakaki from Azumanga Daioh real well. We're both very quiet and have failry intimidating outward appearances, but at the same time we're both very sweet and warm-hearted.

I feel a connection with Sailor Jupiter also (what a dorky response >.> ) for similar reasons. I have a very tight group of friends that see the real me so I don't care to much about random spectators think.

kirara the cat
02-22-2007, 08:53 PM
the situation ritsuka from loveless is in right now kinda reminds me of what im going/have gone through

Milkymagic
02-23-2007, 02:22 AM
I can honestly say no anime has represented my real life. That is why I watch anime I like to escape reality. :D

Definitely, as much as some anime are inspired by real life events, there's still escapism thanks to fact it's all animated (which could even extend the limitations of what could be depicted).

But the impact of anime on myself is one of a deeper entertainment and appreciation of the form. Even when I pick up a magazine or something, I often think what life would be like animated, but that's something that I can only dream about. However, not only does it make great escapism, it can also add a colorful perspective on how we view all things. But it all comes down to one's own imagination when I think really hard! :D

I think anything going on in the tabloids is enough to be cartoonish, I mean, who really cares if some pop star shaved her head?

Just to keep on subject, I'll mention another example I had in my mind:

There are times with my own friends (or maybe even on these boards) where I feel like I'm being a bit like Tohru Honda, I always have the urge to smooth things over if they're looking a bit rough or add a special shiny coating to what somebody just said. I'll say unusually nice things to my friends if they look angry with me, and I'll even tell my family how much I miss them, regardless if it wasn't necessary with a brief phone call to make plans for a get-together. Sometimes, I really do want life to look a little brighter, and throw out any notion of how ugly it can be. Life doesn't get better until you get better yourself, y'know?

Of course, even I come to my senses now and again, as I maintain some realism in my approach. I can't be nice 24/7, that's just too hard!:p

Dark Lord
02-23-2007, 05:03 AM
And Dark_Lord, on that note, my grandmother's cousin killed my uncle.
My deepest condolences to you... It's sad to see family, killing family. It's just, unnatural. I'm glad I haven't lost anyone close to me yet so I still don't know how it feels to lose a precious family member.


In order to make this post more on topic, I'll post another comparison. When I was in grade school, I had my first crush. My reaction whenever she was around was almost exactly like that of Li Shaoran in CCS when he was still new to his feelings for Sakura and Yukito. But I got over it and haven't liked anyone since then.

Have a nice day!!!

kyubichan
02-23-2007, 05:41 AM
My deepest condolences to you... It's sad to see family, killing family. It's just, unnatural. I'm glad I haven't lost anyone close to me yet so I still don't know how it feels to lose a precious family member.

Aa~ it's all good now ^^


In order to make this post more on topic, I'll post another comparison. When I was in grade school, I had my first crush. My reaction whenever she was around was almost exactly like that of Li Shaoran in CCS when he was still new to his feelings for Sakura and Yukito. But I got over it and haven't liked anyone since then.


Ever had a crush on a guy then? O.o

That reminds me of something though. Some of my guy friends are members of our school's performing arts club-thing, kinda like the theater arts? Anyway, when they do plays or play as a band, they remind me so much of the boys from Gravitation XD It's a bit hilarious, especially when people go "Is that a guy?" because their acts sometimes require them to wear... well, certain costumes and such ^^ One of them is just like Shuichi in the sense that he's hyper and is rarely serious.

animanic_critic
02-23-2007, 05:56 AM
That reminds me of something though. Some of my guy friends are members of our school's performing arts club-thing, kinda like the theater arts? Anyway, when they do plays or play as a band, they remind me so much of the boys from Gravitation XD It's a bit hilarious, especially when people go "Is that a guy?" because their acts sometimes require them to wear... well, certain costumes and such ^^ One of them is just like Shuichi in the sense that he's hyper and is rarely serious.
Oh God, please no. That's just wrong.

Instead of seeing yaoi and bishounens acting cute in real life similar to Gravitation, I'd rather get gunned down by a 7.62mm round.

Dark Lord
02-23-2007, 06:22 AM
Aa~ it's all good now ^^
Ever had a crush on a guy then? O.o

Well, I didn't mean it that way. My crush was difinitely a girl, I hope.

Okay, to prevent further misunderstandings, I'll make a slight modification.
In order to make this post more on topic, I'll post another comparison. When I was in grade school, I had my first crush. My reaction whenever she was around was almost exactly like that of Li Shaoran in CCS when he was still new to his feelings for Sakura and Yukito. But I got over it and haven't liked anyone since then.

Milkymagic
02-23-2007, 08:53 AM
Oh God, please no. That's just wrong.

Instead of seeing yaoi and bishounens acting cute in real life similar to Gravitation, I'd rather get gunned down by a 7.62mm round.

Though I respect the differences of every individual, I have to blunt, I'd go with the 7.62mm round if given the choice. :D

In order to make this post more on topic, I'll post another comparison. When I was in grade school, I had my first crush. My reaction whenever she was around was almost exactly like that of Li Shaoran in CCS when he was still new to his feelings for Sakura and Yukito. But I got over it and haven't liked anyone since then.

Yeah, I've never had great luck with those, the only relationship I've been in involved my workplace. As far as anime I could compare it to, that relationship was pure Excel Saga. My girlfriend was definitely like Lord Ilpalazzo in that she was damn hard to please, like she wanted me to move with her only after six months of being together, and I played the role of Excel in that I would always never go through with "her mission" whenever she had one (includes incredible demands that I can't even state). It all ended after I realized we were better off as friends (and still are ;)).

KiraraKim
02-23-2007, 09:12 AM
As far as Bishounen in real life what about the whole metro sexual craze. Beautiful men do exist in real life.

Milkymagic
02-24-2007, 07:21 AM
As far as Bishounen in real life what about the whole metro sexual craze. Beautiful men do exist in real life.

Now that all depends on how they act, would those said metrosexuals possess Bishounen behaviors stereotypically?

Mouse
02-24-2007, 11:38 AM
Now that all depends on how they act, would those said metrosexuals possess Bishounen behaviors stereotypically?
I completely agree with KiraraKim's observations so to this I say absolutely. Get them in the right light and you might even swear you could see their bishie-sparkles.

kyubichan
02-25-2007, 03:22 AM
I completely agree with KiraraKim's observations so to this I say absolutely. Get them in the right light and you might even swear you could see their bishie-sparkles.

Aa~ they're a bit scary and funny at the same time. Scary because they look prettier than I do. And funny for the exact same reason.

Nanook
03-04-2007, 04:46 PM
Aa~ they're a bit scary and funny at the same time. Scary because they look prettier than I do. And funny for the exact same reason.

My mom's first lesson: Never trust a man that's prettier than you are.
I, uh, don't trust many men. Or women, really. I'm good at being paranoid.

Akito
03-04-2007, 05:15 PM
My mom's first lesson: Never trust a man that's prettier than you are.
I, uh, don't trust many men.

Are you suggesting that most men are prettier than you?

AlterGenesis-X
03-04-2007, 05:59 PM
You know those coincedental "bump-ins" that happen at just the perfect time in romance anime, that showhow develop the relationship? I'd be damn shocked if that ever happenend to me, I'd be speechless.

IceDemon
03-04-2007, 06:38 PM
You know those coincedental "bump-ins" that happen at just the perfect time in romance anime, that showhow develop the relationship? I'd be damn shocked if that ever happenend to me, I'd be speechless.

Be pretty cool if something like that happend to someone I know.
As far as Bishounen in real life what about the whole metro sexual craze. Beautiful men do exist in real life.

Beautiful men do not exist. Men are handsome and woman are beautful, very simple concept to understand (no offense intended although i am thinking of editing the line but I've decided not). Beauty is a characteristic mostly attributed to women or womenly things such as roses. I am being stereotypical here but I doubt men would like to be called beautiful versus handsome.

Akito
03-04-2007, 07:28 PM
Originally, the portmanteau "prettyboy" was meant as an insult directed to effeminate men (either in physical or behavioral department).

For some reason (I strongly suspect teenage girls have a role in this), nowadays some males take it as a compliment. Thankfully, most still don't take it as well, meaning that masculinity still prevails.

We need more Russel Crowe's and less Orlando Bloom's (and by less, I mean none). I don't know about you people, but my place is infested with chochy dudes. It's disgusting.

IceDemon
03-04-2007, 07:36 PM
For some reason (I strongly suspect teenage girls have a role in this), nowadays some males take it as a compliment. Thankfully, most still don't take it as well, meaning that masculinity still prevails.

We need more Russel Crowe's and less Orlando Bloom's (and by less, I mean none). I don't know about you people, but my place is infested with chochy dudes. It's disgusting.

I agree. But then women are the same way a lot of the time. Pretty boys usually have nothing else and if they do, some girl/woman will be happy if he's actually faithful but the possibility of something like that happening is really low. Russel Crowe is a good example minus his anger problems.

Milkymagic
03-05-2007, 06:06 AM
For some reason (I strongly suspect teenage girls have a role in this), nowadays some males take it as a compliment. Thankfully, most still don't take it as well, meaning that masculinity still prevails.

We need more Russel Crowe's and less Orlando Bloom's (and by less, I mean none). I don't know about you people, but my place is infested with chochy dudes. It's disgusting.

We need more males that are tough like Charles Bronson and smooth-voiced like Leslie Neilsen.

Of course, I'm already too late to meet the qualifications presented above, but it'd be nice to see such strong representations continue to exist in future generations. :D

Aoyagi
03-05-2007, 01:33 PM
I guess the closest I've come to such a comparison is in 'Kare Kano'.
I'm adopted, and from an abusive parent.

I found Arima's character shared startling similarities to myself in his way of thinking and his interactions with others. Now if only I could find myself a Yukino...

kyubichan
03-05-2007, 11:07 PM
I don't like Russel Crowe and Charles Bronson. They scare me.

We need more Johhny Depp.

Milkymagic
03-06-2007, 06:15 AM
I don't like Russel Crowe and Charles Bronson. They scare me.

We need more Johhny Depp.

I see how it is. :D

Can we compromise with Jack Black perhaps?

kyubichan
03-06-2007, 06:29 AM
HELL NO.

Jack Black creeps me out.

*shudders*

Milkymagic
03-06-2007, 06:42 AM
HELL NO.

Jack Black creeps me out.

*shudders*

Even him!? I'm not even going to try Sean Connery or James Woods at this rate...

Fine, Captain Jack Sparrow it is, have it your way! xD

Mana
03-06-2007, 06:44 AM
* Mana gently nudges the thread back on topic

kyubichan
03-06-2007, 06:54 AM
I guess the closest I've come to such a comparison is in 'Kare Kano'.
I'm adopted, and from an abusive parent.

I found Arima's character shared startling similarities to myself in his way of thinking and his interactions with others. Now if only I could find myself a Yukino...

Thanks for the nudge, Mana :D And I still lurve Johnny Depp.

Okay, moving on... I'm sure there's a Yukino waiting for you out there ^^ Unlike most other female anime characters, it's not impossible for her to exist.

KiraraKim
03-06-2007, 06:55 AM
Originally, the portmanteau "prettyboy" was meant as an insult directed to effeminate men (either in physical or behavioral department).

And yet the ideal man in ancient Greece and Rome for example would be considered a bishounen today. Just look at how men are depicted in Renaissance art.

Look at Michaelangelo's David for a perfect example. David is supposed to be the ideal man. The statue is considered beautiful not handsome.


Edit: Oops sorry Mana, I am editing this post to at least talk about bishounen in art. I hope that is on topic enough. :)

Milkymagic
03-06-2007, 07:56 AM
A nudge is as good as a secret handshake if you ask me!

And enough with these "prettyboys" along with their behaviors, I'm going to address something different to compliment this! ;)

The funny thing is that most children I've been around, especially my younger stepbrother of around 11 years, are incredibly competitive like the tough guys that embody some Shounen anime. He will provoke me with threats of beating my ass, and I will observe him like the little demon he is, only to remind him he's not even a level 1 if you catch my drift. :D

kyubichan
03-06-2007, 08:08 AM
A nudge is as good as a secret handshake if you ask me!

And enough with these "prettyboys" along with their behaviors, I'm going to address something different to compliment this! ;)

The funny thing is that most children I've been around, especially my younger stepbrother of around 11 years, are incredibly competitive like the tough guys that embody some Shounen anime. He will provoke me with threats of beating my ass, and I will observe him like the little demon he is, only to remind him he's not even a level 1 if you catch my drift. :D

That's too cute ^^ I have little cuzzins who don't watch anime, but they remind me of the more innocent kids in the anime world. Back in the day, series' like CCS made me go "whoa~" with the romantic content, since I didn't experience any of those things until I was in highschool. Recently, however, many of the children I've met worry themselves about looking cute for their "crushes". It's nice to be around my cuzzins who worry about nothing but what pranks to play on my sis, and how to convince our aunt to let them have pizza for dinner.

IceDemon
03-06-2007, 08:40 AM
A nudge is as good as a secret handshake if you ask me!

And enough with these "prettyboys" along with their behaviors, I'm going to address something different to compliment this! ;)

The funny thing is that most children I've been around, especially my younger stepbrother of around 11 years, are incredibly competitive like the tough guys that embody some Shounen anime. He will provoke me with threats of beating my ass, and I will observe him like the little demon he is, only to remind him he's not even a level 1 if you catch my drift.

I find this hilarious becuase I relate completely. They find it funny to make comments and play pranks whenever we hang out. Its really funny when I blow some of their pranks up in their face plus I got a lot of respect from them for it :respect:. Then again when I am around them without other adult supervision around I become like a child again and play pranks on them too :D. I miss the old days now that my cousins have grown up :(.

Milkymagic
03-07-2007, 06:22 AM
That's too cute ^^ I have little cuzzins who don't watch anime, but they remind me of the more innocent kids in the anime world. Back in the day, series' like CCS made me go "whoa~" with the romantic content, since I didn't experience any of those things until I was in highschool. Recently, however, many of the children I've met worry themselves about looking cute for their "crushes". It's nice to be around my cuzzins who worry about nothing but what pranks to play on my sis, and how to convince our aunt to let them have pizza for dinner.

I have a cousin who's like Moe from Risky/Safety, as she always seems to have doubts about herself one way or another, but she finds the courage over time to keep moving on from such thoughts. Another cousin of mine is cool, she's sort of like Yukino's younger sisters from Kare Kano, though I can't pinpoint which one to tell the truth.

So my family has a mix of quiet types and playful types alike. I grew up more playful, but I was quiet in high school for a couple of years on that note.

Children in anime are depicted in many fashions, though in the end, I feel anime like Only Yesterday seem to do the best job describing all the questions and feelings children have with growing up.