Things your afraid to ask for...

[kLaUS]

i was watching a show that says that more than 50% of the people are afraid to ask for something to their partners, i reffer sexually, and thats because they are worried about what people judging them...
so i assume that most of the people here doesnt really know each other personally, so i wanna ask what are the most commons sexual inhibitions that you have,or you have heard, what are the things that you are afraid to ask, or you are afraid to be ask.. come on people, lets be brave(of course, dont go over the edge).
by the way im a sexology student , so im not doing it with any wear intention, but i thought it would be fun...

[sohryu]

Sexology student... lol.

I've never had a sexual inhibition or problem asking for something from my partner. Of course, I'm pretty sure that's because I've only been with one person and we're pretty close, so I don't feel strange or awkward asking things of him.

The most common I've heard of is chicks that don't want to have sex with the lights on. If the guy wants to have sex with you, it's because they're attracted to you! Don't be shy, show them what you've got, in more ways than one. ;)

[Mana]

Roark and I have a very sexual relationship, but it's also very open. I can't think of anything that I've kept from him, sexual or not.

[soundchazer]

Nope, I have to say my wife and I have experimented quite a bit.

Fun days I tell you, fun days.

[JaQuais J.]

:tmi:

[kLaUS]

so, i see you people are really open, and thats understandable in a very close long time relationship, but as i started this and apparently im the only that is gonna say yes, lets just say why...
maybe when im with a girl, its difficut to ask her to be more passive. I know its kind of wear because most of the guys like a women to be more aggressive, but its just something i like and i think its something that can maybe turn of your partner... so its something that i like but i usually dont ask for... maybe it is fear to be judge.

[Jeannie]

I guess it really just depends on the person.... or what they're asking for...

I find I've never had a problem like this but then... I've only been with two people so I guess I should cool it a bit? Anyway, I can't understand why people would feel weird about asking, I mean, unless your dude is beating you or something, ask away.

[Javer]

You're 15, but you've had sex with two different people?

[Neur0tic]

Hello? MR PRESIDENT???
we've just recieved some VERY DISTURBING REPORTS

PLEAEASE PLEASE PLEEZE

RAISE THE THREAT LEVEL TO SLUTCON1


THIS IS SERIOUS, MASSIVE SLUTS ARE INCOMING AND WE CANNOT REPEL THEM...TELL MY WIFE I LOVE H-...........ASD;FOUHQ3249P78YH2341PN.ZX.CV

[Jeannie]

It happens Javer, it happens.


Neur0tic, are you talking to me? You may not be but... I guess make it more clear.

[Javer]

I see . . .

Hello? MR PRESIDENT???
we've just recieved some VERY DISTURBING REPORTS

PLEAEASE PLEASE PLEEZE

RAISE THE THREAT LEVEL TO SLUTCON1


THIS IS SERIOUS, MASSIVE SLUTS ARE INCOMING AND WE CANNOT REPEL THEM...TELL MY WIFE I LOVE H-...........ASD;FOUHQ3249P78YH2341PN.ZX.CV

I'm sorry, I'm going to have to borrow someone else's macro here.

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a80/Javer80/Internet%20Memes/STHU.gif

[Jeannie]

Anyway, to stay on topic.

I can understand how people would feel um... "judged" was the word you used but I think a better word is embarassed. Alot of girls (at least my age, I won't speak for the older crowd) are just so embarassed with their bodies and their development that it gets in the way of them asking for something. It's usually a self-esteem thing but it depends...

[JaQuais J.]

This thread is hilarious.

[Phate]

Is it wrong to masturbate? :(http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v218/Ph4t3/Emot/emot-fh.gif

[Niner]

You're 15, but you've had sex with two different people?
It happens Javer, it happens.

http://9.echonetwork.net/Crap/Oh_Internet/XLX4OU5SCJIPJM4OMLZN3BAKHOJOSEKB.jpeg

[General Suburbia]

The most common I've heard of is chicks that don't want to have sex with the lights on. If the guy wants to have sex with you, it's because they're attracted to you! Don't be shy, show them what you've got, in more ways than one. ;)
Maybe, at least when it comes to girls. A guy might be embarrased if his penis isn't the size it "should" be, so maybe if a girl has deformed nipples or something...most people who ask for sex don't see the person's full body until they actually have sex.

lol, posting this made me laugh.

[aoi_n_asul]

Is it wrong to masturbate? :(http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v218/Ph4t3/Emot/emot-fh.gif

morally, it depends on you but biologically no. it does represent an immature psychosexual development from early childhood..or something like that ^^

[Xfox*X]

Anyway, to stay on topic.

I can understand how people would feel um... "judged" was the word you used but I think a better word is embarassed. Alot of girls (at least my age, I won't speak for the older crowd) are just so embarassed with their bodies and their development that it gets in the way of them asking for something. It's usually a self-esteem thing but it depends...

why are you having sex at the age of 15? and what do you mean it just happens? it doesnt just happen. you make that choice to jump in. of coarse you could be drinking and that helps you make that jump. but then why are you drinking at 15 also.

[Jeannie]

why are you having sex at the age of 15? and what do you mean it just happens? it doesnt just happen. you make that choice to jump in. of coarse you could be drinking and that helps you make that jump. but then why are you drinking at 15 also.


Wow, I thought this thread died. If you want it to live then at least stay on topic. PM me if you have some kind of problem with what's ALREADY HAPPENED. :Hump:


But to answer some of you question... Yah drinking. I won't blame anything on that but I could say it played a role in what happened. If you want a cleaer story please PM me. You all seem so damn interested. Lord, it isn't as uncommon as you think.

[NausicaaBoy]

So what I had sex at 15..who cares? lol...its not a huge deal... btw this thread is on crack lol

[Phate]

morally, it depends on you but biologically no. it does represent an immature psychosexual development from early childhood..or something like that ^^
Oh thank God, because I do it at least three times a day. http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v218/Ph4t3/Emot/emot-fappery.gif http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v218/Ph4t3/Emot/emot-fappery.gif http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v218/Ph4t3/Emot/emot-fappery.gif

[Neo-Hunter]

well that was intresting Fate. but I have to say that I mean I feel strange when my twigs and bits don't size up to my GF but she's a size 38DD Kinda Make me feel worse but she makes it better in strange ways but I really don't talk about my sex life. and Jeannie 2 guys and your 15 I thought theirs laws against that?

[Dirty Harry]

I've been very open about my wants and needs with every single partner I have ever had. Starting with my cousin in the 5th grade, I found that just talking things through often lead to me getting my way, most of the time. So yes, I've had these sexual inhibitions, I've had them plenty throughout my career as a student, mostly during my high school days. I'm glad to say I've been with a score of girls that range greatly in their different levels of beauty, looks, and sexual drive.

=D

[NausicaaBoy]

I've been very open about my wants and needs with every single partner I have ever had. Starting with my cousin in the 5th grade,
=D


I dont even know what to say.....JUST SAY JK!!! lmao....eeewww...

[Phate]

DH you sick pervert. How can you be so immoral and heinous? Thank the Lord I'm nowhere nearly as bad as you are.

So Jeannie, you come here often?
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v218/Ph4t3/Emot/whore.gif

[Dirty Harry]

There's nothing wrong with sexing up your cousin. It's not like you're REALLY related. Anyway, she didn't have a problem with it. ^.^

[kLaUS]

well, there has to be something wrong with sexing up with your cousin.. and specially in 5th grade. Anyway, my intention with this thread was to do something serious, but if you guys dont want to, ignore it...

[Neo-Hunter]

I think their is an issue with DH comment it goes under the WTF colum. seriously dude.

[Jeannie]

The cousin thing sin't that bad. You can legally (in some parts) marry your first cousin. (Little fun-fact there :D )

So Jeannie, you come here often?

Still 20$. Lol, just kidding.


and Jeannie 2 guys and your 15 I thought theirs laws against that?

There are but there's no way to really inforce that once it's happened. I mean, people make mistakes. Technically, I was only with one of the dudes (he was a BF that I had dated for about a year and a hlaf) and the other dude was a total mistake that I regret happening.

If you care for more just ask, I'm just getting tired of the "YOU'RE ONLY 15!!!!" comments...

[Phate]

Still 20$. Lol, just kidding.
So it's free for me? That's chill. http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v218/Ph4t3/Emot/emot-coal.gif

[Jeannie]

LOL! You're funny dude.

:jesus: <-- He still loves you.

[Neo-Hunter]

So basicly you had one as a bf and the other as a mistake? uh isn't it rape u could have sued.

[NausicaaBoy]

I like how jeannie is the center of this whole thread now lol.

haha how come fate gets it for free?!!!

[Phate]

My command of the English language is superior to yours.

[Jeannie]

So basicly you had one as a bf and the other as a mistake? uh isn't it rape u could have sued.

If you must know, I was totally shit-faced when it happened. I do remember the events leading up to it though so I will admit it was to my consent.

I like how jeannie is the center of this whole thread now lol.

haha how come fate gets it for free?!!!

Yah I like that to. I think it's hilarious that it turned out this way. At least it's the Misc forum so it isn't that bad.

My command of the English language is superior to yours.

Damn. Put some fire on that ice! Oh wait...:thumbup:

[NausicaaBoy]

:Hump: ...you still didnt tell me why phate gets it for free and not me....
lol jk jk jk

shit this thread is random

[Saya-biki]

sex?

No I don't need it, not now. And theres always, well, masturbation.

Theres no one in my school I would want to get into a relationship thats required for (uh...most forms of) voluntary sex.

I would not be using drugs. Drugs would only be bad for me.

I never feel bad enough to experiment with drugs or am placed in situations where I would. Although I know almost everyone in school, I'm good friends with a little amount of people. Not like I'm invited to parties, I probably wouldn't go either, I wouldn't know what to do. And I avoid dances because they're normally held on Fridays and I have Iaido. And, again, I don't know what to do. On top of that I know the effects, they would only present problems for me in the long run.

I'll wait until sex, I'm not in a rush.
But when the time comes I hope I'll be able to have a nice time where both me and whoever it is are comfortable. Though I doubt it'd be the first time.

Oh well, perhaps I'm a naive nerd. Not the end of the world.

Besides...I'd rather be able to beat the shit out of people than go online and talk about my sexual experiance!

Well, in the end, whatever happens happens! :thumbup:

[Ninja Realist]

It's not rape if you enjoy it.

[Xfox*X]

so lets see here we have 15 year olds having 3 somes and 14 year olds talking about masterbation. one guy doing his cousins thats good.

now i have never had trouble asking anything, but one of my buddys does his chick would never take her underbrichs off for him because she didnt want him to see it or something and it drove him nuts but he wont say a thing.

[NausicaaBoy]

Thats weird...lol... but yeah wow..this is not the usual kind of thread for the AA lol

[Ninja Realist]

Thats weird...lol... but yeah wow..this is not the usual kind of thread for the AA lol

So says the fellow who joined a week ago.

[NausicaaBoy]

So says the fellow who joined a week ago.



mmm but fellow who joined a week ago can read threads from 3 years ago :greensplo

[Dirty Harry]

Screw you guys, I try to tell you guys about my experiences and you just go off on me and call me a liar. You can bite me, kLAussusus, and keep your shitty little nonsense thread where everybody else gets to flaunt their sexual experiences until you dissaprove or find something disbelievable. I've had plenty of partners since I became sexually active, both male/female, and a few of my distant relatives. I think you're the one losing focus, my posts were completely according to your initial post. =\ You're all bastards.

[Itachi Uchiha]

A foursome (with 3 girls of course)
To throw foreplay to the wind

[soundchazer]

For the record:

DH is from Kentucky. That would explain the whole cousin thing. It is actually a common practice and a discourtesy to your cousin if you don't do it with him/her.

[IchigoHime]

Um...Is it wierd that I've no inhibitions?

Cause um...
Isohaveneverdoneit!

EEK!
(don'tletemknowyou'veneverbeenkissed...don'tletemknowyou'veneverbeenkissed...don'tletemkno....)

Aw, heck, what was the topic again...
Oh, yeah. I'm so totally not afraid of getting what I want.

Which is usually just some Hostess cupcakes and a subtitled anime.

[AqueousMessage]

(rant)

Jeez, someone's not getting any.

[Jeannie]

Dating you're cousin aint a big deal... I probably would to if all my older cousins weren't girls. Save it for another day.

Who's having the three-some?

[Ninja Realist]

Dating you're cousin aint a big deal... I probably would to if all my older cousins weren't girls.

I don't see a problem here.

[Phate]

Dating you're cousin aint a big deal... I probably would to if all my older cousins weren't girls. Save it for another day.

Who's having the three-some?
Doesn't bother me as long as you're all attractive and use a camera. http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v218/Ph4t3/Emot/emot-master.gif


DH is from Kentucky. That would explain the whole cousin thing. It is actually a common practice and a discourtesy to your cousin if you don't do it with him/her.
oh hay an incest joke about southerners how witty. http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v218/Ph4t3/Emot/emot-banjo.gif

[Xfox*X]

so that guys not only doing his cousin he is having sex with men? wo thats guys twisted.

[Jeannie]

Well the two people I had sex with were male so I guess it can't be all that uncommon. But seriously, don't be a dumbass. Sexuality isn't the point of this thread and judging by Dirty Harry's posts he doesn't seem to be gay by any means (although I'll leave it to him to clarify that).

Doesn't bother me as long as you're all attractive and use a camera

I think I'm hot (A little alternative but it's all good) but I don't own a digital camera (Well, I kinda do; I use my friends camera for alot of things) plus my mom would never let me post a picture of myself online (although I could get away with it).

:love13:

[soundchazer]

oh hay an incest joke about southerners how witty. http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v218/Ph4t3/Emot/emot-banjo.gif

But Of Course... Wit is my middle name.

[Xfox*X]

Well the two people I had sex with were male so I guess it can't be all that uncommon. But seriously, don't be a dumbass. Sexuality isn't the point of this thread and judging by Dirty Harry's posts he doesn't seem to be gay by any means (although I'll leave it to him to clarify that).



I think I'm hot (A little alternative but it's all good) but I don't own a digital camera (Well, I kinda do; I use my friends camera for alot of things) plus my mom would never let me post a picture of myself online (although I could get away with it).

:love13:

yes they were males and you were a girl. but he said he was involved with them so i think it was more then what you did. plus it seems to me that the point of the thread was lost a long time ago when your whole topic came up.

[Dirty Harry]

Hey Jeannie, you sound delicious, I think you should hook the forum up with some fine-ass pictures of your sexy self. ^.~ Hugs and kisses, DH.

[Phate]

I think I'm hot (A little alternative but it's all good) but I don't own a digital camera (Well, I kinda do; I use my friends camera for alot of things) plus my mom would never let me post a picture of myself online (although I could get away with it).:love13:
"kinda do"? "could get away with it"? My dear, we both know how this will end up so why don't we just skip to the end?*
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v218/Ph4t3/Emot/emot-quagmire.gif


* Not a sexual come on. No way.

[oompa loompa]

personally I think the most awkward question ever is "anal sex.. ehEH!"

[Jeannie]

yes they were males and you were a girl. but he said he was involved with them so i think it was more then what you did. plus it seems to me that the point of the thread was lost a long time ago when your whole topic came up.

You're a dumbass dude.

Hey Jeannie, you sound delicious, I think you should hook the forum up with some fine-ass pictures of your sexy self. ^.~ Hugs and kisses, DH.

Deliciouso, my friend.


"kinda do"? "could get away with it"? My dear, we both know how this will end up so why don't we just skip to the end?*



* Not a sexual come on. No way.

I'll work it out sooner or later. Give or take a few days. ;)

personally I think the most awkward question ever is "anal sex.. ehEH!"

Hey man, whatever floats your boat.

[Xfox*X]

You're a dumbass dude.QUOTE]

how am i the dumb ass? what happen to you is differnt then what he is saying.

[QUOTE=Dirty Harry] I've had plenty of partners since I became sexually active, both male/female, and a few of my distant relatives.

see he never says it was a threesome where they werent playing with each other. he says he had male partners. i didnt say he was gay. i think he is bi.

[Jeannie]

You're a dumbass dude.QUOTE]

how am i the dumb ass? what happen to you is differnt then what he is saying.



see he never says it was a threesome where they werent playing with each other. he says he had male partners. i didnt say he was gay. i think he is bi.


Exactly. Who the **** cares though? If I remember right, quite a few people from AA are bisexual. (I read that in a thread somewhere, I'll search for it and post it once I find it.)

Moving on... I missed this earlier.



[QUOTE=Jeannie]Dating you're cousin aint a big deal... I probably would to if all my older cousins weren't girls.


I don't see a problem here.

I've only kissed a girl once, right before 6th grade. My main deal with my older girl cousins is they're all ugly (Well, for my standards. They are "classic beauties" so to speak)

[soundchazer]

Fo those who don't know:

classic beauty: definition for a girl who is plump, short and unattractive feature, but who usually is a good cook and has a good character.

[Jeannie]

Fo those who don't know:

classic beauty: definition for a girl who is plump, short and unattractive feature, but who usually is a good cook and has a good character.


Sounds about right. That's what I was talking about. My sisters can't cook worth a damn though...

[punkusa20_2001]

hmm I always try to ease into new sexual experimentation with a partner. Just bluntly saying something does seem a little crass. I just kinda go in a new direction and stop if i am not getting the vibe back.