Ever lost all interest in sex?

[Ninja Realist]

For the past few months or so, I have had absolutely no interest in any kind of sex at all. I haven't even masturbated. Has this ever happened to any of you guys? Have you ever just lost all desire for sex?

[Moe]

i'm sorry for you, i really am. for a guy to lose interest in sex, wow something tramatical must have happened to you, that or you can no longer feel an orgasm from excessive masturbation.

i for some reason have an ever lasting crave for love and lust and all that other stuff...

[Alex]

For a month or so. I was so stressed out that it even affected my sex drive. :eek: Up to that point I didn't think stress could have such an effect on me, quite the opposite, as sex can be a good relaxation technique. But I guess if the level of anxiety is too high that doesn't come into play anymore. :/

[Tatumaru]

i'm sorry for you, i really am. for a guy to lose interest in sex, wow something tramatical must have happened to you, that or you can no longer feel an orgasm from excessive masturbation.

i for some reason have an ever lasting crave for love and lust and all that other stuff...
Or maybe he isn't a hormonaly challenged sex-craving moron.

Music is my anti-sex. The thought of it hasn't crossed my mind since the Paris Hilton sex tape was mentioned on some show on VH1. But then i went back to watching band rehersals.....yeah.....that's all I do.

So, to answer your question, Realist: Have I forgotten about it? Yes. Have I ever lost interest in it? Not really.

[Moe]

i'm sorry for you, i really am. for a guy to lose interest in sex, wow something tramatical must have happened to you, that or you can no longer feel an orgasm from excessive masturbation.

i for some reason have an ever lasting crave for love and lust and all that other stuff...
Or maybe he isn't a hormonaly challenged sex-craving moron.

Music is my anti-sex. The thought of it hasn't crossed my mind since the Paris Hilton sex tape was mentioned on some show on VH1. But then i went back to watching band rehersals.....yeah.....that's all I do.

So, to answer your question, Realist: Have I forgotten about it? Yes. Have I ever lost interest in it? Not really.


music is your anti-sex..... video games are mine.... but i'm low on games and money so my crave went up a bit... its been up for a while now...... and aint nothing i can do to keep it down.... i'm a long lasting machine..... it's how i am... and aint nothing i can do about it........

[Akuhei]

i'm sorry for you, i really am. for a guy to lose interest in sex, wow something tramatical must have happened to you, that or you can no longer feel an orgasm from excessive masturbation.

i for some reason have an ever lasting crave for love and lust and all that other stuff...


lol... tramatical xD (<3 typos). I'm not a very eprverted person save every once in a while I'll be overly horny for 2 or 3 months. I don't really think there's anything wrong with not thinking about sex 24/7, but I think an actual adult male should answer the question.

[Moe]

If your sex drive is gone for no apparent reason, then I say just enjoy it. You've just been granted time and energy to use in some other way.

so that's how my DDR ability went up???? well i learned something new, someone used to tell me that masturbating killed rabbits.

[JOJO]

I always try to keep myself busy, and only think about stuff like sex when i have nothing else to do...and even then i try not to give in too much to desires.

[Admiral Ackbar]

Yes I do, usually when I become so tired during the day that all I want to do is just fall down on my bed and drop right asleep. And then when I have the need to pee really really bad. And when I'm absolutely starving. But outside those moments it's always there.

And Moe, everytime you masturbate god kills a kitten.

[Admiral Ackbar]

AM I the only one here without a constant sex drive or is it a guy thing?


It's a post puberty thing. but in truth it doesn't kick in for women till their 20's usually.

[Moe]

AM I the only one here without a constant sex drive or is it a guy thing?


It's a post puberty thing. but in truth it doesn't kick in for women till their 20's usually.



not the girls in my area. that stuff kicks in around 14.
well thats what i hear. from other girls about themselves.

[Admiral Ackbar]

not the girls in my area. that stuff kicks in around 14.
well thats what i hear. from other girls about themselves.

Then there must be something in the water. Because the sexual peak for guys is between 17-21, while for women it's 27-31.

Maybe that explains Ashton and Demi....

[otaku]

not the girls in my area. that stuff kicks in around 14.
well thats what i hear. from other girls about themselves.

Then there must be something in the water. Because the sexual peak for guys is between 17-21, while for women it's 27-31.

Maybe that explains Ashton and Demi....


maybe its just times have changed since those polls were taken....cause i believe its everywhere.

[Admiral Ackbar]

maybe its just times have changed since those polls were taken....cause i believe its everywhere.

I don't think facts change in 1 year. I think that it's just a lot of talk and not a lot of action.

[Dirty Harry]

I have lost my interest in actually having sex because I know that it will suck.

I have not though, lost my interest in the pleasure that could come from sex.

So I guess I'm halfin' it.

[TypicalIdiotFan]

No.

[Zushio]

Only on two occasions.

1. When I was so sick that I could barely move.
2. When I stopped having a partner (ie broke-up)

[Ritalin]

Canadia women must be weird then, Ackbar. At the beginning of high school most girls go nuts. Which is... age 14 - 15 = freshmen.

I haven't lost a sex drive, but maybe a short period of no interest. There have been brief periods when I don't feel like doing much because I'm lazy/tired, but usually then I could be convinced out of it (ESPECIALLY if I was drinking >_<).

This past march-april I missed nearly two periods though (that was so scary...), and I would say a (maybe slight) loss of sex interest as well. I was extremely stressed out, depressed, and overall crappy.

I'm too much of a pervert to loose full interest though. =|

[soundchazer]

I did for about 2 months because of depression problems.

[Yurika Star]

This last year yea. Stressful, emotional shit and lots of other crap o.o

But I'm never really that sex-obcessed anyway (atleast I don't think I am... although alot of people who know me would probably disagree xD), but this last year it's been way down.

[Itachi Uchiha]

Yes! Mainly, due to stress and way to many things to do, there just isn't enough time in the day. I swear, if my gf didn't throw herself at me during the school year... Well, now its summer! NO MORE WORRIES!

[sohryu]

Yeah, I've been there before. For me it was because of relationship problems and because I wasn't sure of my feelings and emotions. No depression or anything like that, thankfully.

[Kain]

As you get older, sex becomes less and less of a primitive, carnal lust and more about the culmination of emotions two people share for one other. Not entirely, but less and less. :)

[soundchazer]

As you get older, sex becomes less and less of a primitive, carnal lust and more about the culmination of emotions two people share for one other. Not entirely, but less and less. :)

I have to agree with that. mEn tend to lose some of their mojo as they get older, so emotions fill the gap.

[Kawaii Lolita!~]

I've never lost my desires until one year, when I annouced I was a kogal, some guy thought I was a 'call girl' if you catch my drift... -_- So now I'm looking for the right person, not just anybody. If you've been looking like I have, and can't find that right person, it might disscourage you to not want to participate in sex. If that made no since, then ignore me. 0.0 I'm new at this kinda topic.

[Ojisan]

Kinda right now, for reasons to go unmentioned, but I'll give it a few days and see what plays out.

[lola]

-fortiune cookie says
"to be in a dry spell, you have to have had a wet spell"

:iamabanan :_lol:

[Ojisan]

-fortiune cookie says
"to be in a dry spell, you have to have had a wet spell"

:iamabanan :_lol:


You are the perceptive one. :D

[Kawaii Lolita!~]

You are the perceptive one. :D

Indeed she is. ^_^

[Mystic_Spike]

me?no,i have never ever lost all interest sex...mainly because im not getting enough!!! (or vice versa)

I dunno, but maybe there's this false message going around that if you're not somewhat horny every day then something's wrong with you. The level of sexual stimulation in modern life is unnaturally extreme anyway.

'unnatural' ,hmmm.. this word gets thrown about too much.everything humans do is 'natural' because we are a part of nature as well, power plants are natutal,cars are natural, genetic engineering is natural. just because something is different and the balance in nature is changing doesn't make it 'unnatural' just different.(sliightly off-topic :P).
anyways,in the same way just because the level of sexual stimulation in society has increased doesn't make it 'unnatural',just different.in terms of society, there are a lot stranger things in practice than an emphasis on sex (a very 'natural' thing), like.....*thinks of a decent example*...taboos,like sex,drugs....murder?(i actually have quite a few but that's for a different topic). pretty much all other animals walk around naked,do they suffer from 'unnaturally extreme sexual stimulation'?...
if you mean 'unhealthy (mentally)' as opposed to unnatural then you may have a point but we are not in a position to make an objective judgement.

i don't why i decided to rant about something as trivial as that..oh well.

[Alex]

As you get older, sex becomes less and less of a primitive, carnal lust and more about the culmination of emotions two people share for one other. Not entirely, but less and less. :)

=)

*chuckles* DK, you are the king of answering a question without actually answering the question! :XD: Not that your answer didn't provide interesting info, it did, as always. :) But just the same, how did you vote on the poll? :cat:

[Kiba]

Canadia women must be weird then, Ackbar. At the beginning of high school most girls go nuts. Which is... age 14 - 15 = freshmen.
I live in Canada and it kicks in at age 14 like you said, maybe just woman in Ontario. Anyways the only time I lost interest in sex when Ii was half died laying in a ditch.

[Tyrdium]

-fortiune cookie says
"to be in a dry spell, you have to have had a wet spell"
Fortune cookie says, "constant grinding turns an iron rod into a needle."

[Ninja Realist]

Fortune cookie says, "constant grinding turns an iron rod into a needle."

"..In Bed"

[soundchazer]

I live in Canada and it kicks in at age 14 like you said, maybe just woman in Ontario. Anyways the only time I lost interest in sex when Ii was half died laying in a ditch.

... after having sex.

[Kiba]

... after having sex.
No

[Mystic_Spike]

-fortiune cookie says
"to be in a dry spell, you have to have had a wet spell"
Fortune cookie says, "constant grinding turns an iron rod into a needle."


Fortune cookie says, "Help, i'm trapped in a cookie factory"

[animefreek_CM]

i myself have lost interest in sex. of course, i have never had sex. i am only fifteen, and in my opinion am still too young. but, there was a time when even looking at hot girls as they passed by me didn't appeal. it was a stressful period indeed.

[Tyrdium]

Fortune cookie says, "Help, i'm trapped in a cookie factory"No, no. It's, "help! Help! We're being held prisoner in a system software factory!"

(Virtual cookie to anyone who catches the reference without cheating)

[Cherika]

yes. honestly it did not happen till i got married. then for some reason it was not fun anymore. the reason i loved it so much before is it was spontanasy(sp) now it is not. so it is dull. even when we do differnt things it just does not rock my boat.

[soundchazer]

yes. honestly it did not happen till i got married. then for some reason it was not fun anymore. the reason i loved it so much before is it was spontanasy(sp) now it is not. so it is dull. even when we do differnt things it just does not rock my boat.

Well, that is your own fault then. My wife and I have been married for 7 years and marriage has never been an issue when it comes to sex.

[Cherika]

Well, that is your own fault then. My wife and I have been married for 7 years and marriage has never been an issue when it comes to sex.
i did not say it was annoy one else's fault! i know it is my own. but the reason for me you would never understand. you have not lived my life. so it is hard to explain all my issues with sex. it is just not the marriage thing it goes farther than that. but i will not discuss my personal business with anyone one here.

[soundchazer]

Well you did discuss some of them already in public. Understandable, but I still fail to see some of the logic. Look for a PM.

[Veraca]

oO; this forum comes up with the most bizarre topics- i swear!

anyways.... dont really have a desire for sex- don't see the point of it while im still as young as i am. ^.~ i might become a nun

[Veraca]

That would be cool Veraca! I could never do somehting like that.

It'd be easy for me cause right now I've got literally no attractions to male or females in RL- anime/manga wise is kinda a different story- but even still when I think about it, I'd be just a good friend instead of GF.

[Kiba]

yes. honestly it did not happen till i got married. then for some reason it was not fun anymore. the reason i loved it so much before is it was spontanasy(sp) now it is not. so it is dull. even when we do differnt things it just does not rock my boat.
Do you mean spontaneous?

[Akimichi Choji]

Wow, I can't believe they let you use that word. No, I have never lost interest in any form of sexual pleasure.

[Zelkiiro]

Believe it or not, there have been instances that knocked my sex-craved brain on its ass and KO'd it for a few rounds. For example, when Mei got pissed at me. A little bit of my soul died...along with my libido...

[etane]

I might have lost interest in sex with a particular person... but I have yet to lose interest in sex. Sometimes, it does get a lil demeaning when I know the girl only wants me for my body. I live with it.

[Ojisan]

oO; this forum comes up with the most bizarre topics- i swear!

anyways.... dont really have a desire for sex- don't see the point of it while im still as young as i am. ^.~ i might become a nun


Bizarre if you're uh, sheltered. Not that that's bad or anything. I actually respect the fact that you find you chastity in hand with youth (I mean, come on, 14, 15?); I was in a few positions at 14 when I could have done some things that I didn't. Wasn't until later that I had been with a person for a while who I liked that I went any further.

Yeah and that dry spell. Gone.


I might have lost interest in sex with a particular person... but I have yet to lose interest in sex. Sometimes, it does get a lil demeaning when I know the girl only wants me for my body. I live with it.


Heehee

[Cherika]

Do you mean spontaneous?
lol yes. i can never spell that word!

anyways after talking with soundchaser in pm. i feel i should explain my answer some more. i do not want anyone to think marriage ruins your sex life. it does not. marriage is wonderful if it is with the right person.

The reason mine is so afwul right now is i work 50 plus hours a week as a shift manager and i also go to college. i am always tired and just really only can do it at one time everyday and that is before bed. so it is to the point sometimes im just too tired. please don't think marriage is so bad. just growing up is bad. i got married young and still was not done with other things in my life that needed done with. like school. so everything is a strain. just because it is hard for me to find time, does not mean it will be that way for you.

[M.Baka]

it happens when i have a lot to do. But it comes back usually. Unless u are drugged like i was. Killed the sex drive...but it was tempary so that was good.

[Spilled Milk]

well I'm one horny ass bitch. :P j/k but no I have alot of sex drive for a girl..and sometimes it worries me..like.I am afraid I'll end up doing something i dun whant to because of it ya know? but theres nothing I can really do to help it..masturbating for chics is just gross...but yeah I have never lost interest in sex really...I'd like to keep my virginity till I am married...but I dunno if I have the self control to do that O.O...also I'm afraid that having so much sex drive is unnatractive to guys T-T..

[TwinchaosX]

well I'm one horny ass bitch. :P j/k but no I have alot of sex drive for a girl..and sometimes it worries me..like.I am afraid I'll end up doing something i dun whant to because of it ya know? but theres nothing I can really do to help it..masturbating for chics is just gross...but yeah I have never lost interest in sex really...I'd like to keep my virginity till I am married...but I dunno if I have the self control to do that O.O...also I'm afraid that having so much sex drive is unnatractive to guys T-T..

ummmmmmm I don't know to many guys who don't like a girl with alot of sex drive anyway....never having had sex I don't know if I would get sick of it or not but there are alot of other things more fun then being horny.

[C0MPL3X]

also I'm afraid that having so much sex drive is unnatractive to guys T-T..

its unattractive when someone acts like a whore (and they usually are). Symptoms include talking in a foul and unpleasing accent and language (aka slut talk, bitch talk), wearing overtly exposing clothes (I just can't understand when fat chiks try to show their bladde, I mean, their belly. Or their thighs. Reason is beyond me). But no, Im' pretty sure you can still be attractive and have a lot of sex drive, I think subtle ways of letting the opposite sex realize that while maintaining your own eleganace, unique personality, is what is most appealing.

Or at least to me. But then again, as twinchaos've said, there are other ways of having fun.

[Griveton]

well I'm one horny ass bitch. :P j/k but no I have alot of sex drive for a girl..and sometimes it worries me..like.I am afraid I'll end up doing something i dun whant to because of it ya know? but theres nothing I can really do to help it..masturbating for chics is just gross...but yeah I have never lost interest in sex really...I'd like to keep my virginity till I am married...but I dunno if I have the self control to do that O.O...also I'm afraid that having so much sex drive is unnatractive to guys T-T..



It's not the "so much sex drive aspect" which is unnattractive, but the lack of control over it. A strong libido in a woman can be a pretty attractive thing (no, it's not because we think we'll get laid whenever we want... ok, ok, it's not entirely because that), but if it gets over the top, well, then it's another thing: It can be so much as to actually be a hassle (example: with an ex of mine, we always had to leave parties early, sometimes minutes into it, because a bit of alcohol just put things out of control. Watching a movie on TV when alone was also a big, big issue).

There is also the slutty factor, which is basically that we can easily equate a huge sex drive without much control with someone sleeping around, even if it's not premeditated.

A third possible cause is, of course, if the guy has a lower libido. If a guy is completely spent and she's still revving up, feelings of inadequacy and/or incompatibility begin to creep into the psyche.

[Spilled Milk]

yeah..well its not so much I have it out in the open...but my mother told me guys don't like it when s are too easy...but than again she could have just said that to keep me pure O.o..I dunno..I never really wear ty clothes..infact I find them unnatractive...eh w/e..XD sry if I'm gettng off topic.

[ZalorD]

For a month or so. I was so stressed out that it even affected my sex drive. :eek: Up to that point I didn't think stress could have such an effect on me, quite the opposite, as sex can be a good relaxation technique. But I guess if the level of anxiety is too high that doesn't come into play anymore. :/
I have hi-anxiety. Doctor recommend Alex sending pix ASAP kplox.

[etane]

I think they should have bouncers in front of stores that sell revealing clothing like wet seal and bebe. The bounces will only allow those who meet a certain fat/muscle/height/weight ratio to enter da store. It is just foul to subdue my eyes to overweight shamus wearing something only jessica alba should be wearing.

[Griveton]

yeah..well its not so much I have it out in the open...but my mother told me guys don't like it when s are too easy...but than again she could have just said that to keep me pure O.o..I dunno..I never really wear ty clothes..infact I find them unnatractive...eh w/e..XD sry if I'm gettng off topic.


I guess there is something to be said about working for it, but all in all, that doesn't mean a high sex drive is bad. A high sex drive doesn't mean a girl is slutty. It just means she enjoys sex and does want it on a regular basis.

I think they should have bouncers in front of stores that sell revealing clothing like wet seal and bebe. The bounces will only allow those who meet a certain fat/muscle/height/weight ratio to enter da store. It is just foul to subdue my eyes to overweight shamus wearing something only jessica alba should be wearing.


You are my hero.

[anime_angel19]

well I've never had sex, but some of my friends say they've lost interest.

[Mana]

No.

[Blue Audio]

Only after I got crabs.

[Sae]

Well for me, since I am a virgin and am abstinent at the moment, all I can say that I've lost interest in is sexual desires. At times, I have lost sexual desires but I think that has happened to almost everyone. Unless they are sex freaks. :p jk

Sae-chan

[Ojisan]

My penis is currently sore.

[Mamimi]

I lose all interest when I'm very stressed, or even slightly bothered. But then again, I'm a 17 year old girl - Not exactly at my sexual peak. However, I think it might be impossible for my boyfriend to lose interest... ever. :P Horny kid. *loves anyway*

[rockroc]

Nah, no way I could loose interest, I've gone for a week or two without jackin, but this occurs only if im busy with something else, like skool, Martial Arts,or Im Seriously stressed out.

[sohryu]

However, I think it might be impossible for my boyfriend to lose interest... ever. :P Horny kid. *loves anyway*
Tell me about it! My bf is 22 and acts like a 16 year old in that respect. I can't complain though since I'm also a bit sex crazed. Just a bit. >.>

<.<

[kLaUS]

But, lost interest in sex, what does that really means ?¿ Not, wanting to have sex for two weeks?¿ i thinks its impossible to lose all interest bekause itsnt just natural and normal thing, but bekause its a neccesary act in our human lifes !! And of course its always great (well, most of the times). So, No.

[Milkymagic]

Well, it hasn't quite recovered after a $1600 hospital bill, and all because me and the doctor didn't reach our conclusion on my heath for sometime until he simply stated "you either have asthma or acid reflux disorder" and later found out I had the latter.

The symptoms: I woke up not being able to breathe for a bit accompanying heartburn (found out acid spilled up my esophagus and burned me up a little), and was very dizzy, only to find out I wasn't going to die (noooooooooo!). And I don't have insurance because I've never had health problems in my life until now, which means I need to get me some after a few months, agh! It's gotten better, but knowing it's still there sucks (just a pill a day and I'm good), though I understand it could've been worse so I am grateful nonetheless. Don't think I'm a puker, it's gotten minor as of late.

Sure helps that the only girls that like me in this area hate anime and video games, and they all like to go outdoors (which I enjoy sparingly). However, this period has allowed me to enjoy female company through conversation, so now I get to pick apart brains without the usual male stimulation. So I guess there are benefits, but I do hope it comes back, being I have yet to experience great sex as it is told to me, though I could bear with it never coming back (doesn't mean I can't act male!). Guess it's time to write something, and maybe I'll get a visit from the wood fairy sometime!

No sore penis makes Milky a sad panda.

[kiyone]

My boyfriend has been really stressed, where for the last month and a half he has completely lost interest in sex. Its really annoying. I understand that he's depressed, and upset I understand how he feels, but at the same time why does the sex have to suffer. As someone mention earlier in this thread Sex relaxes a person.

[Kuzu Ryu Sen]

My boyfriend has been really stressed, where for the last month and a half he has completely lost interest in sex. Its really annoying. I understand that he's depressed, and upset I understand how he feels, but at the same time why does the sex have to suffer. As someone mention earlier in this thread Sex relaxes a person.

Well, it's got a lot in the biology. The reproductive urge occurs when the body believes that there are abundant resources around and a suitable area to rear young. For example, people in the midst of starvation will have zero sex drive (why procreate if you can't feed it?). Likewise, stress indicates that the surroundings are unsuitable for raising a vulnerable child, so the urge to procreate decreases. Yes, sex is relaxing, but you have to relax to have sex.

[Phate]

My boyfriend has been really stressed, where for the last month and a half he has completely lost interest in sex. Its really annoying. I understand that he's depressed, and upset I understand how he feels, but at the same time why does the sex have to suffer. As someone mention earlier in this thread Sex relaxes a person.
It also involves more than one person; he might not want to deal with that at the moment. Also, it's not exactly relaxing, unless you're referring to afterwards. There are plenty of other things that are relaxing that don't involve sex first.

[PsychoSaiya-jin]

At one point I decided to become abstinent (sp?) from sex for spiritual and mental reasons. I found it easier to socialise and it made me more attractive to women in some respects.
Then I found a partner and I was back at square one.

[LakiDash]

I haven't had it in quite a long time. And there are times when I'm just plain disgusted, or more often, downright scared of having it again.
In fact, that's rather common with me these days. I can't put my finger on why. I mean, I've only had very few experiences, but they weren't bad. I'm just scared of doing it again. It's a problem, really.
I've been offered it, and even wanted it badly, but I say no, or just shy away from the person till they grow disinterested. Cause, I'm just scared.

Part of it is always cause the girl isn't what I'm looking for. They just want sex, which would be fine and dany, but I'm currenly longing to be in a relationship. But even so, there's times where I just don't care and would like to have sex, but can't bring myself to it.

[Mailorder]

I'm not married, so I don't have any interest in sex.

[soundchazer]

I'm not married, so I don't have any interest in sex.

Uh... you got it wrong. You are interested in sex because you are NOT married ;)

[Roark]

I think the better question is: how many AAers actually have experience in this matter?

[7Raven7]

I think the better question is: how many AAers actually have experience in this matter?

That's sounds way too close to sexual solicitation to me... bad mod, no cookies for you!

[Ninja Realist]

I think the better question is: how many AAers actually have experience in this matter?

There was allready a DIFFERENT thread about that though Roark. And besides, while plenty of people on this forum may not actually be having sex, I'm sure just about everyone here thinks about it. Hell, you'd have to be some kind of freaky dude not to.

[Phate]

I think the better question is: how many AAers actually have experience in this matter?
I know I don't! I'm as innocent as the day I was born. Like LS, she's 100% innocent.

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v218/Ph4t3/Emot/angel.gif

[Mana]

LS isn't innocent anymore, we had elbow sex in IRC.

[LadySage]

Ah yes, Mana deflowered my...elbow...

But yeah, I've given up the innocent thing (still a virgin though). To answer frankly, I've never had a strong sex drive at all and it's still pretty nonexistent when my guy isn't around. And since it's long distance, he's almost never around...

[So Panic.]

Never lost all interest in sex... can't say I've tried to either. Sex is something, in my family and the way i was raised, that I'm very open about so naturally my sex drive is pretty strong. Not so strong that I can't control myself and I rape little boys every other day but healthy strong, if that makes any sense.

[kyubichan]

Not consciously, but there's that certain five-day period in every month that I'd have to be insane to even think about sex.

[KidKolt]

Nope, never. Not once, and not even a little bit. I'm pretty much always horny and willing. :D

[NausicaaBoy]

mm not really but after you start having sex on a regualar bases you dont have such an incredible and insatiable drive for it...however, if I was to suddenly find myself on a desert island I might feel quite differently

[PsychoSaiya-jin]

I guess there's always a need to distinction between sex and love. Often love can make a desire for sex tied to a desire for one person, in which case absence can make the heart grow fonder. At the same time, anitcipation can create intense feelings of arousal.
Sex on the other hand, can have it's desires born from basic urges. In this case, satisfaction can make a person loose interest until the desire is rekindled.
At the same time, those who have never known satisfaction can sometimes remain ignorant and thus desires are not as overwhelming.

For example: Does a person hanker for dounuts if there is always a box next to them? If you can never have a dounut before, do you ever feel a wanting outside of curiousity?