First Kiss?

[LadySage]

Just out of curiousity, how old was everyone when they got their first kiss?

I'm 17 years old and a high school junior, and I have never had the pleasure of having someone else's tongue in my mouth. (That's my term for it because I'm lonely and bitter. My mother and sister do not seem to appreciate my astute powers of observation.) My twin sister is with her second boyfriend and her first kiss was at 15.

[Liegenschonheit]

I wouldnt worry about it too much. In my entire highschool career I had one boyfriend, and it didn't turn out very well, as he basically ran away from home and drove across the country to be with me. May sound romantic, but it turned my life into a living hell. I had my first kiss at sixteen, unless you count the ones I gave in kindergarten, but my first "serious" relationship at 19. I was very shy and more interested in books than boys, and was never really one for meaningless romances.
My guess is that you probably haven't met anyone worth getting involved with yet. From your posts I know you are a very astute girl, and most highschool boys tend to be a bit immature. (Sorry boys, it's true.) It may sound lame and trite, but you really will meet some one worth your time. Besides, there are always smarter, cuter boys in college. ^_~

[Bane the ECF]

I was 4 years old when I kissed my first girl. She was crying because she got teased by bullies in preschool. I got sent home for that. :D

My next kiss didn't come until I was 20 years old. :p


Bane

[Perfect_Cheezit]

It was middle school sometime. Don't remember who it was though so I couldn't have had that much fun doing it.

[fugupinkeye]

Originally posted by LadySage
Just out of curiousity, how old was everyone when they got their first kiss?

I'm 17 years old and a high school junior, and I have never had the pleasure of having someone else's tongue in my mouth. (That's my term for it because I'm lonely and bitter. My mother and sister do not seem to appreciate my astute powers of observation.) My twin sister is with her second boyfriend and her first kiss was at 15.


You're better off waiting and being choosy about who you share that moment with, first anythings never come around again.

[nixie1512]

i'm 17 and i had 2 bfs before this, but i kissed none.

>.<

[Kurorakuda]

When I was 9, around the same time I first moved to New York. I lived next to a lot of girls, and let's just say I made friends quick, especially with my next door neigbor. It both made my life then a living hell and my life now a pleasure (get your minds out of the gutter, we only kissed. I was way too shy to do try anything back then (infact still am -_-U)).

[Linuts]

I got mine when I was in kindergarden. It left quite an impression on me... literally... After she kissed me she bit my arm pretty bad, and that scar is still there (That's around 15 years ago too ....T-T) And I'm not kidding T-T...

Wonder whatever happened to her... o_O

[Illjwamh]

17. But I don't know if it would really count. My best female friend (at the time) and I were in a play together and our characters had to kiss, and we were "practicing.":p

[TypicalIdiotFan]

1 minute 30 seconds into my life.

Mommy went "SMOOCH!". The 1 minute 30 seconds was for the doctors to slap my ass, do the cord, wrap me in a blankey, etc.

[Chronus]

There are some damn chaste people in the house!

I first got tongue action around 12 :D

French girls are easy

J/K! :D

Not really

[Hyoung]

Shit, Illjwamh, that is some damn smooth operating!

Linuts: "Once bitten..."?

[Tenshi no Rakumei]

I was 13. Saw a cute guy, grabbed him by the hair, kissed him, slapped his ass, said thanks and walked off. He stalked me for the rest of junior high.

It was sooo cute, and I was soooo aggressive...wait, I still am.

[|\|4|2|_|7o]

haha well im only 14 and im a lil slut the last party i was at which was on friday i got with 6 chicks soo i might beat u all :P lol

[Naota]

I got my first "tongue action" when I was in grade 6 by Australian standards, like 12, I think.

[Two-twenty]

Yeah, I had one of those cutesy-w00tsy first kisses in Grade 3 (8 years old I think). She planted one on me then I ran away and did't talk to her ever again.

My next decent one was when I was 16 with my girlfriend (That relationship lasted about 2 weeks, but hey! Longest one yet). Since then it's a semi-regular occurance at parties.

[Blossom]

IM 16 and never been kissed

Still wating for that someone to come along;)
One day it will come.....

[soundchazer]

18, and I was lousy at it.

[Spilled Milk]

im FIFTEEN AND NEVER BEEN KISSED> I AM WAITING TILL AFTER HIGHSCHOOL TO GET INVOLVEd in relationships. and even then im waiting to kiss until my wedding DAY> ITS NOT LIKE IM A GOODY GOODY THATS JUST HOW I WANNA DO THINGS>(sry keyboards acting up)

[Mike]

I'm 20, and I got sent to a boys' school by my parents, so I don't think it's surprising that I haven't had a girlfriend. Right now I've been in University for 2 years, and unfortunately the female population there is just as sparse. :(

I guess that's what I get for wanting to do Computer Science.

[soundchazer]

Originally posted by Mike
I'm 20, and I got sent to a boys' school by my parents, so I don't think it's surprising that I haven't had a girlfriend. Right now I've been in University for 2 years, and unfortunately the female population there is just as sparse. :(

I guess that's what I get for wanting to do Computer Science.

I hear your pain. I was in an all boys school until I was 17.

I seriously hope you go to you University's outings or have a cousin or sister who can introduce you to a girl.

Otherwise, I heard the church is still receiving applications for priesthood.

[Tamanegi Sensei]

I think I remember placin the kiss of death be accident on my girlfriend when I was 17. Otherwise, I've never got one back.

[Mike]

Originally posted by soundchazer
I hear your pain. I was in an all boys school until I was 17.

I seriously hope you go to you University's outings or have a cousin or sister who can introduce you to a girl.

Otherwise, I heard the church is still receiving applications for priesthood.

See, I don't live anywhere near my university. It's a 45 minute drive each way whenever I have to go, so I only go there for classes and that's about it. There are hardly any "outings" at all anyway, and they're just barbeques.

I've still got a circle of friends from school that I go places and do stuff with, but not really any "girl-hunting" activities.

[Losha]

My first "real" kiss was when i was 15.

[jetfire]

My first kiss was last year, when I was 19. I'm still with her too. Always will be.

[Yurika Star]

Probably 13-15. Sex was 16 i think, so i'd have to assume it was before then.

[TypicalIdiotFan]

Originally posted by Mike
I'm 20, and I got sent to a boys' school by my parents, so I don't think it's surprising that I haven't had a girlfriend. Right now I've been in University for 2 years, and unfortunately the female population there is just as sparse. :(

I guess that's what I get for wanting to do Computer Science.

Hey, doesn't mean you can't have your first kiss. Them boys is lonely too. :D

[soundchazer]

Originally posted by TypicalIdiotFan
Hey, doesn't mean you can't have your first kiss. Them boys is lonely too. :D

TIF, you should remember that not everyone has your habits.

[geoffropuff]

mine was in kindergarten. the girl in front of me leaned her head backwards and kissed me. i didnt even know what was going on cuz i was watching the teacher read a story. my first real one was with my girlfriend back in freshman year of high school. we just broke up after about 6 years and 4 months.

[soundchazer]

Originally posted by geoffropuff
mine was in kindergarten. the girl in front of me leaned her head backwards and kissed me. i didnt even know what was going on cuz i was watching the teacher read a story. my first real one was with my girlfriend back in freshman year of high school. we just broke up after about 6 years and 4 months.

Damn you! You just stole the best years of her life and now she has nothing to show for it! ;)

[Dark Awakenings]

Not until I was 14. That was with my first girlfriend.
Now, even though my current girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for about 3 months, she is still to shy to kiss me.

[soundchazer]

Originally posted by Dark Awakenings
Not until I was 14. That was with my first girlfriend.
Now, even though my current girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for about 3 months, she is still to shy to kiss me.

Translation: She likes me for who I am, but hates how I look.

Translation 2: I have to get rid of my onion-charged meals.

[Dtortot]

Now this may astonish some people, specially those that know my extreme goodlooks and sexyness but if you see the poll look fo the Over 18, option and I am the single number.

Yhea I know such a goodlooking, funny and sexy guy like me started somewhat OLD to do that kind of stuff, but I saved it for teh one!

[soundchazer]

Originally posted by ¬|¬°/|¬|¬°¬|¬
Now this may astonish some people, specially those that know my extreme goodlooks and sexyness but if you see the poll look fo the Over 18, option and I am the single number.

Yhea I know such a goodlooking, funny and sexy guy like me started somewhat OLD to do that kind of stuff, but I saved it for teh one!


Pffft... talk is cheap... I'll believe it when you and whatshername are married.

[LakiDash]

I'm 15, soon to be 16, and not once have I been kissed, but I'm patient. If I get a date, go me. If not, oh well. It's not the greatest concern of mine.

[Mira]

Originally posted by soundchazer
18, and I was lousy at it.

Don't worry SC most of you guys are. ;)

I agree that you are all pretty chaste around here. I thought the younger generation was supposed to be "faster" than mine?? This is enough to make a girl feel...a little sleazy? ;)

I had my first romantic kiss at 12 and my first French kiss at 13.

mira

[soundchazer]

Originally posted by Mira
Don't worry SC most of you guys are. ;)


No worries here. I may have been at the time, but not these days.

And hey... practice makes perfect. ;)

[Death27282]

Originally posted by LadySage


I'm 17 years old and a high school junior, and I have never had the pleasure of having someone else's tongue in my mouth. (That's my term for it because I'm lonely and bitter. My mother and sister do not seem to appreciate my astute powers of observation.)

Yea, same here!

[Liegenschonheit]

Originally posted by Mike
I'm 20, and I got sent to a boys' school by my parents, so I don't think it's surprising that I haven't had a girlfriend. Right now I've been in University for 2 years, and unfortunately the female population there is just as sparse. :(

I guess that's what I get for wanting to do Computer Science.

Hey! I hate that sort of remark, it's what makes it hard for we women to do our jobs in the industry. When I did desktop support at Hewlett Packard, I used to get men who would come up to me and say "Hey little girl, are you sure you're supposed to be in the IT department?" Grrr.
And yes, I was a computer science major before I switched over to something where my professors wouldn't blatantly ignore me or treat me as less important than the males in the classes.
Anyway, I'm sure you probably didn't mean anything offensive by that remark, and I just chose you to vent on. There are girls and women in the CS world, they are just few and far between. And when one of us does come along, the men tend to treat us as one of the guys, no matter how feminine we are outside of work.

[soundchazer]

Originally posted by Liegenschonheit
Hey! I hate that sort of remark, it's what makes it hard for we women to do our jobs in the industry. When I did desktop support at Hewlett Packard, I used to get men who would come up to me and say "Hey little girl, are you sure you're supposed to be in the IT department?" Grrr.
And yes, I was a computer science major before I switched over to something where my professors wouldn't blatantly ignore me or treat me as less important than the males in the classes.
Anyway, I'm sure you probably didn't mean anything offensive by that remark, and I just chose you to vent on. There are girls and women in the CS world, they are just few and far between. And when one of us does come along, the men tend to treat us as one of the guys, no matter how feminine we are outside of work.

Or you become the object of instant adoration... you know... like the pin up girl for women deprived nerds.

[Phelddagrif]

I'm waiting till I get a car to get a girlfriend or a true kiss, but I was so a kindergarden pimp. ^_^. (Kissed at 4 :P)

[L. Peanut]

Originally posted by soundchazer
Or you become the object of instant adoration... you know... like the pin up girl for women deprived nerds.

Now THAT is the truth. My friend's sister is a research scientist. She's pretty enough, but at her work she's basically considered a goddess. Same thing happens to girls at military academies. For all you girls who want the guys to line up, just got to Westpoint.

[Tank]

My first Tounge Action was last April 17. I just asked my girl friend and she remembered the exact date. I think it was around 8:30 pm, behind the big spruce tree in her back yard.

[GWS923]

Originally posted by Chronus
There are some damn chaste people in the house!

I first got tongue action around 12 :D

French girls are easy

J/K! :D

Not really

Bwahaha. That was funny.

Originally posted by |\|4|2|_|7o
haha well im only 14 and im a lil slut the last party i was at which was on friday i got with 6 chicks soo i might beat u all :P lol

Guys aren't sluts. Just pigs.

I had my first french kiss in a game of spin the bottle in 7th grade. I try to forget that one though. The first one that meant anything was in 8th grade, a harmless kiss with my best friend. And then there was summer of 8th grade, and stuff happened then I wish I could forget.

Let me put it this way. If you're in 8th grade, I don't care who you are, you are not ready to have oral sex. In all honesty, please, please GOD, if you're 15 or under, DON'T do it. I don't care how much fun it sounds like.

So pretty much, the first kiss that counted (I.e. with a girlfriend, and I'm not regretting it to this day) was summer after 9th grade at camp, with a girl I really wish I could still be with, but she lives halfway across the country.

Originally posted by Lakidash
I'm 15, soon to be 16, and not once have I been kissed, but I'm patient. If I get a date, go me. If not, oh well. It's not the greatest concern of mine.

That is DEFINITLEY the right mentality. I'm proud of you lol.

[Liegenschonheit]

Originally posted by soundchazer
Or you become the object of instant adoration... you know... like the pin up girl for women deprived nerds.

To tell the truth, I think it is a little of both. Really, most of those guys are very shy about women and aren't sure how to behave around us, so they just try to treat us as they treat their friends. I've come to the understanding that when someone says "You're not like a real girl, you're cool," is actually a compliment. A weird one, but a compliment nonetheless.

[soundchazer]

Originally posted by GWS923
Let me put it this way. If you're in 8th grade, I don't care who you are, you are not ready to have oral sex. In all honesty, please, please GOD, if you're 15 or under, DON'T do it. I don't care how much fun it sounds like.

Heck, most ppl are really not ready for ANY type of sex when they are 15.

Originally posted by GWS923
So pretty much, the first kiss that counted (I.e. with a girlfriend, and I'm not regretting it to this day) was summer after 9th grade at camp, with a girl I really wish I could still be with, but she lives halfway across the country.

Summer lovin' had me a blast - summer lovin', happened so fast
I met a girl crazy for me - I met a boy, cute as can be
Summer days driftin' away, to uh-oh those summer nights

Tell me more, tell me more, did you get very far?
Tell me more, tell me more, like, does he have a car?

[bondingo]

Well, I had my first kiss on the cheek in like kindergarden or something and my first mouth kiss (lol) was in 2nd grade. There was this girl who I was really good friends with and we both really liked each other so we tried kissing for fun and liked it so much that we did it whenever no one was watching (it was cute). My first "french kiss" was at summer camp, the summer after 7th grade. I liked this girl and she liked me so we dated and we kissed after about a week of dating. And now (as a freshman) I have 3 girls and 2 guys that like me. But the guy I really like says I'm a little too young but he thinks I'm really cute (I don't like girls ^_^). So I'm content.

[Kei]

To make a long and complicated story short, my first kiss was in a movie theater during some random Teen Comedy (I can't even remember now...) Either way, the girl I was with kissed me on the cheek towards the end of the movie. I thought it was a fluke at first so I didn't pay any mind. She then did it again, so I looked at her, and she kissed me on the lips. Oh, did I mention her boyfriend was sitting next to her? Yeah. That didn't blow over so well. My first kiss sucked.

~Kei

[GWS923]

Originally posted by soundchazer
Summer lovin' had me a blast - summer lovin', happened so fast
I met a girl crazy for me - I met a boy, cute as can be
Summer days driftin' away, to uh-oh those summer nights

Tell me more, tell me more, did you get very far?
Tell me more, tell me more, like, does he have a car?

Lol, I hate that movie. But that was appropriate.

[Akito]

I got my first kiss in kindergarten. Back then, I was too dumb to even know what the word girlfriend itself meant, I was bored too.

I also gave my first French kiss in grade 5. The results of that, however, were nasty.

Especially for me.

And my once beautiful nose.

[I_am_I]

My first French was February 15 of 2003, and I was fourteen. My first "normal" kiss came about a month after^_^; I'm still with the same guy.

[Zirilan]

Yet to happen.
Age: check my profile if you really wanna know, hope you know how to subtract!



Just kidding, I'm 16.

[L. Peanut]

Originally posted by Kei
To make a long and complicated story short, my first kiss was in a movie theater during some random Teen Comedy (I can't even remember now...) Either way, the girl I was with kissed me on the cheek towards the end of the movie. I thought it was a fluke at first so I didn't pay any mind. She then did it again, so I looked at her, and she kissed me on the lips. Oh, did I mention her boyfriend was sitting next to her? Yeah. That didn't blow over so well. My first kiss sucked.

~Kei

LOL. Now THAT'S awkward. Having the boyfriend 3 feet away really puts a damper on making the moves.

[Frapp]

14 years old. I had been "seeing" this girl who lived a billion miles away from me (well, as far as Cape Cod, MA to Long Island, NY) via snail-mail and telephone.

Her and her best friend (coincidentally my best friend's girl), were on vacation with the friend's parents in scenic MA. I got my first kiss at that campground. It was also the kiss that helped her decide that I was no good for her, as she had dumped me a whole week after that.

[The_Promise]

I first kissed a girl when I was 5 years old and in kindergarten. I've pretty much enjoyed a constant state of exile from the opposite sex for the last 14 years. I also went to an all guys school for 4 years. I suppose this resulted in my lack of close female friends around high school......hmmmm do you suppose my personal ugliness had something to do with it as well?? I never considered that before ;)

Note: The_Promise is a bitter and sullen old man in a 19 year old's body.

[Mike]

Originally posted by Liegenschonheit
Hey! I hate that sort of remark, it's what makes it hard for we women to do our jobs in the industry. When I did desktop support at Hewlett Packard, I used to get men who would come up to me and say "Hey little girl, are you sure you're supposed to be in the IT department?" Grrr.
And yes, I was a computer science major before I switched over to something where my professors wouldn't blatantly ignore me or treat me as less important than the males in the classes.
Anyway, I'm sure you probably didn't mean anything offensive by that remark, and I just chose you to vent on. There are girls and women in the CS world, they are just few and far between. And when one of us does come along, the men tend to treat us as one of the guys, no matter how feminine we are outside of work.

What remark? I made a statement based on pure fact. At my university, there are like 20 girls in my year doing Computer Science, out of over 200 students. Where did I say that the reason was because they're no good at it?

[umeboshi]

You wouldn't know it looking at the hairy manly-man I am today (pay no attention to that man behind the Princess Tutu sig), but I was a hopeless romantic as a teenager. Just the scent of perfume would make me bow my head and blush. Fortunately, there was no shoujo manga around to read or I may very well have become an actual Japanese schoolgirl. Anyway, I didn't manage my first qualifying kiss until sometime around my 18th birthday. I was, of course, horrible at it. Luckily, so was the girl.

[silentruth]

Originally posted by umeboshi
You wouldn't know it looking at the hairy manly-man I am today (pay no attention to that man behind the Princess Tutu sig), but I was a hopeless romantic as a teenager. Just the scent of perfume would make me bow my head and blush. Fortunately, there was no shoujo manga around to read or I may very well have become an actual Japanese schoolgirl. Anyway, I didn't manage my first qualifying kiss until sometime around my 18th birthday. I was, of course, horrible at it. Luckily, so was the girl.
awwwwwwwwwwww so cute.


first...
the guy i mentioned in the thread 'first heartbreak'. first heartbreak...speaks for itself. terrible...:whine

:death

[Icehawk]

My first actual mouth to mouth kiss with a girl was back when I was 18 with my first real girlfriend. Nothing all that special about it though.

[Luggles]

4-5. Me and some girl in our school would cover each other over with our coats and smooch like no tomorrow. I guess she would have made a nice girlfriend if she didnt leave my school.

[Bio]

Never, and i am 21...

I had a couple of chances with 2 girls who had a crush on me, but didn't do it for i am storing the first kiss for the true love of my life.

first kiss is very special and have a great meaning here, and it's said that ''if u have ur first with a girl who's also having her first with you, ur love will last forever'' or something like that. :)

Stupid but works for me :)

[Skuldchan]

My first kiss happened in kindergarden (I think I was about 5). And it happened when I was in the bathroom washing my hands then this 1st grader ran in and kissed me. I didnt know what it was at first so when he left I washed my mouth out. Yeah it wasnt too pleasant.

[Addesan]

T-t-t...I'm 19 and counting, haven't recieved a kiss to date. It's not like I'm waiting for anything, and I do have alot of female contact...but I never find myself romantically interested in them. Sexually attracted, sure, but that's a given. I guess you could say I've never been in love. And I hate it. Particularly considering that I love romance and would give anything for a serious, romantic relationship. Alas, I have no wish to kiss or have sex with someone I'm not in love with, so to this day I am deprived of kisses.

[otaku]

i'm only 13, i've never been kissed.

but i have a stocker.....wich is just creepy

[soundchazer]

Originally posted by otaku
i'm only 13, i've never been kissed.

but i have a stocker.....wich is just creepy

Ok... stocker... what does his person stocks? (Toothpastes?) ;)

I'm just kidding. I'm sure you meant stalker.

[LenLen]

My first real kiss was when I was 17, from my now husband, we got married at 21, and have been happily married for almost 3 years :D

I may have been kissed in kinder though, I really don't remember, but I have been told I had a "boyfriend" in kinder, but yeah... :D

[Dennis]

I got my first kiss at my Soph Hop back on March 9, 2004 at Saint Joseph's University (my high school held it in their cafeteria) I am glad that the girl how changed me was the girl I have known my entire life. The night was ending and she slipped me the tongue, let your mind fill in the details. I can still taste her...

Dennis

[anime3536]

mine was when i was about 8 or 9

[Doc Eggman]

*sigh* Never have yet, and I'll be turning 16 on June 5th. I had a girlfriend once, but she broke up with me shortly after we got together, so I never got the chance. Eh, I'm sure it'll happen to me eventually. ^_^ Just gotta wait untill another girl comes along, I guess.

[Toshiro]

I kissed my first girlfriend when I was 13 yrs old. And, I most say, after having one other girlfriend since then, but many other relations, I must have sucked. I havent had a girlfriend since I was 14, currently 17 (almost 18) I didnt kiss another girl for 2 yrs until I went to New York. First kisses really arent important, when you experience your first Meaningful kiss, with someone you are sure you like, very much, that is the one that means something. Not the one that happens when you are both to young to even begin to know what the phrase "french kiss" means.

[Smitty]

Originally posted by geoffropuff
we just broke up after about 6 years and 4 months.
Ouch! :Sweat
Originally posted by soundchazer
Damn you! You just stole the best years of her life and now she has nothing to show for it! ;)
I'd hate to think that high school is the best time of a person's life... I guess I have a pretty dreary existence ahead of me, if that's the case. ^_^

I'm only 14, never had a boyfriend, and don't really care. I'm way too picky and I'm saving my first kiss for someone who's really special. Naturally, most of the boys in my high school aren't too special. Just immature.

[soundchazer]

Originally posted by Der Hamster
Naturally, most of the boys in my high school aren't too special. Just immature.

It has nothing to do with your highschool. This is how people carrying the "Y" chromosome behave at that age.

[Smitty]

Originally posted by soundchazer
It has nothing to do with your highschool. This is how people carrying the "Y" chromosome behave at that age.
Of course, I didn't mean that it was strictly my high school. I live in a relatively small town, so my selection of guys is basically limited to my high school.

Lol, I make it sound like shopping, don't I? "Selection" - :Jolly

[soundchazer]

Originally posted by Der Hamster
Of course, I didn't mean that it was strictly my high school. I live in a relatively small town, so my selection of guys is basically limited to my high school.

Lol, I make it sound like shopping, don't I? "Selection" - :Jolly

Well... you can always shop for love, I guess.

[TwinchaosX]

Personally i think any love life you have in highschool is a waste of time usually after highshool you don't ever see that person again also it causes alot of drama and it is a money sucker having a girlfriend or boyfriend but then again I'm no expert.

[Mira]

Originally posted by TwinchaosX
Personally i think any love life you have in highschool is a waste of time usually after highshool you don't ever see that person again also it causes alot of drama and it is a money sucker having a girlfriend or boyfriend but then again I'm no expert.

An obvious romantic here. Watch out girls this one's a real romeo :rolleyes: (love = waste of time, unecessary drama, and money sucker).

Do you have any fun in your life? I mean lots of things waste our time, take our money and cause us some grief (anime for example). It doesn't mean we excise them from our life. How...joyless.

mira

[TwinchaosX]

It is still a waste of time I mean to say which is better spending a bunch of time and money on a girl who you think really likes you and then dumps you or something and breaks your heart or second choice skip all the drama and heart break and spend the money and time on doing things with your friends,buying music ,anime and so on.I personally think the second choice sounds much better. Not to say that love doesn't work out sometimes otherwise the population would be much smaller.

[GeekMeister A]

^^Bitter 'cause he can't get laid.

(j/k)

[TwinchaosX]

good one lol geekmeister A but I for one care more about the person's personality then getting laid and not how big her boobs are!

[soundchazer]

Originally posted by TwinchaosX
It is still a waste of time I mean to say which is better spending a bunch of time and money on a girl who you think really likes you and then dumps you or something and breaks your heart or second choice skip all the drama and heart break and spend the money and time on doing things with your friends,buying music ,anime and so on.I personally think the second choice sounds much better. Not to say that love doesn't work out sometimes otherwise the population would be much smaller.

I hate to break the news for you, but life is all about hardship, drama and heartbreak. It is those little moments of joy that make it bearable. If you deny yourself those to play it safe, or to "save your money", you may eventually become a very bitter, bitter person.

[TwinchaosX]

I'm not saying I would not like to have a meaningful love life I'm just saying in highschool its mostly a waste of time I think but thats just what I think everyone has a right to their own ideas

[Atticus]

It's pretty hard to think back to my first kiss... That was quite some time ago.

Though I'm young...really young, I've had quite a few Girlfriends. Through what I've been through HS I've began to learn that most of the 'relationships' at this level are superficial and built off social status (minus a select few). So I haven't worried much about a kiss. A kiss is like a handshake... Just more intimate and usually not with the same sex... (at all for me.. >.>;; )

(((Edit... Mistake on emoticon because of my '>.>;;' ran in with the ')' to make this... "(at all for me.. >.>;;)" )))

[Luggles]

In addition to what SC said, you wouldnt really get a chance to excercise your "im a personality" moral without actually getting to know a girl. As well as that, its just good practice starting off with girls.

Trust me, it's a lot easier to start off with those little teenage love aches and learn from them for future relationships. It's all part of growing up, i wish i wasnt such an anti-relationship guy back 3 years ago. Long story short, i like a girl who liked me back then. If i bothered i would have been in a much better relationship with her than i am now, but thats how life goes.

Bitter because you've had a bad experience with a girl? it happens sometimes, plently more fish in the sea. And besides, it doesnt nessecerly mean you and her are over with.
and thats that.
[/rambling]

[soundchazer]

Originally posted by TwinchaosX
I'm not saying I would not like to have a meaningful love life I'm just saying in highschool its mostly a waste of time

I see it as the training wheels of the real thing. Otherwise, I can assure you it will be awkward for you (and the girls) later on without having the experience.

High school romance is not as complex as the same thing in the adult world.

[Atticus]

Originally posted by Mira
I mean lots of things waste our time, take our money and cause us some grief (anime for example). It doesn't mean we excise them from our life. How...joyless.

mira [/B]

Hehe, just saw this... Couldn't agree moreover. I may think that early relationships, pre-teen and teen alike, are for the most part superficial, but I understand the fact that sometimes it's nice to experience something in your life. Without the things we find joy with in our lives we would be destined to an asthenitic eternity.

Only a select few are serious in their HS relationships, nonetheless I feel it's a very important time of building. We all need to have a little background in the game of love before we can be set out into the world. I for one can say I'm very glad to have done the 'wasteful' things in life that I have done. At least I've done something.

[TwinchaosX]

Alright I can see I'm outnumbered here on this issue and you guys do make some good points but I still really think that you should avoid relationships in HS that you know will end badly but yes I can see how it does give you some good experience for relationships later in life.

[Mira]

Originally posted by TwinchaosX
I still really think that you should avoid relationships in HS that you know will end badly

Wow your psychic abilities must be really strong. I mean knowing the relationships will end badly in advance? Amazing.

My boyfriend from my senior year in HS has been my husband for 13+ years now. Good thing I didn't decide to pass him up because I was in HS. ;)

I'm very very happily married, something that many couples who start out in the "real" world don't achieve for as long as we have. I'm not saying everyone should get engaged their senior year and follow in my footsteps. It isn't the path for everyone. I AM saying that all relationships are risky. It isn't your age or place in the world that matters in love as much as your level of maturity and readiness to be involved.

I applaud you for seeking reality and substance in your love life. I caution you against being too close minded about the possibilities open to you. You can't know what will happen for sure and you should never assume that an external circumstance (such as being in HS) is a precurser to a doomed relationship. You are closing yourself off to all that could be and disrespecting people who do find lasting relationships during their HS years to boot. They aren't all just fluff and nonsense.

Oh, and get your date to pay her own way. Man, what are we in the 50's? I mean I didn't leech on my dates and that was in the late 80's. :) Love need not be hard on the pocket book.

mira

[TwinchaosX]

Yup I have major ESP

[soundchazer]

Originally posted by TwinchaosX
Yup I have major ESP

Is that a BS or a BA? I have never heard of such major.

[vashthestampede]

I'm a pathetic piece of crap. Enough said.

[TwinchaosX]

Very funny soundchazer

[Shikyo]

18 and never been kissed. Seeing how i went to an all girls highschool, have less than 5 guy friends, never been in love, and never had a crush. Kind of pathetic. Oh well. Its not like i've actually met anyone i would have been willing to kiss anyways.

[Lavi]

ive had a few girlfriends, but i have only been kissed once. i'll admit it, im kinda scared of goin there

[animeantoinette]

I got mine when I was 11. AT the Boys&Girls Club.

[Charkun]

The only girl in my entire life I have cared about/care about/will care about gave me my first kiss. n.n
Who, you ask? I'll give you a hint:
It was on February 15th, 2003. n.n

[Azazis]

Girls have cooties!

[soundchazer]

Originally posted by Azazis
Girls have cooties!


Don't care. If they have cooties... cooties are good.

[AlterGenesis-X]

Never been kissed. Thus, I'm a loser. I'm 16.

[Rajamana]

If you ask ma female frends they'd say im a horndog. :hump in reality, im a hopless romantic with about three g/f at the same time and a dozen girls who like me alot. I'll bathe a girl in my love only to have my heart shattered. :whine i've kissed a girl in every possible place on the face except lips. but I refuse to actually kiss (much less do anything else to anyone) on the lips till im in true true true love.

in short im a bit of a loser ^.^

[Sophie]

I am 16, almost 17 and I havent technically had my first kiss. I did have this boyfriend when i was in 3rd grade though, but he cheated on me with this hoochie Spanish chick in front of me, but i really didnt care (we only "dated" for 3 days ROFL). Ever since I found out about the "Real world", when i was in ninth grade, I really lost interest in seeking out guys in my all rich white school. I am actually attractive and i know that, but the quality of guys arent worth my time.
To Understand better why I havent had a boyfriend, I will put it into the words of my history Subsitute, which is a conservative football coach that stares at highschool girls clevage all hour when he asked the question "Is bush a good president."
I reply with a no, and a 14 point anaylsis and here is his reply:
*Gives me a shocked dumbfounded look*
"Missy, with that mouth you are never going to have a boyfriend"

Oh woah Is me..... I am never going to have a boyfriend, because I dislike bush, I should just kill myself right now, *cue tear drop*

But, on a serious note, I dont really date, I mess with boys little average intelligence heads, but I dont date, because none of them are to my level.

[Smitty]

Originally posted by AlterGenesis-X
Never been kissed. Thus, I'm a loser. I'm 16.
Note all the people who are anywhere from 21 and older in this thread who still haven't been kissed and then repeat what you said. :p

Originally posted by Sophie
But, on a serious note, I dont really date, I mess with boys little average intelligence heads, but I dont date, because none of them are to my level.
As horribly arrogant as that sounded, more power to you. GIRL POWER! :Jolly

[Rajamana]

Originally posted by Sophie

But, on a serious note, I dont really date, I mess with boys little average intelligence heads, but I dont date, because none of them are to my level.

That is VERY arrogant.... u remind me of the girls that play with my heart and rip it out.... but i can sorta see where you're coming from.... sorta.... (and the average intelligence thing is a false accusation)

[soundchazer]

Originally posted by Sophie
I am 16, almost 17 and I havent technically had my first kiss. I did have this boyfriend when i was in 3rd grade though, but he cheated on me with this hoochie Spanish chick in front of me, but i really didnt care (we only "dated" for 3 days ROFL).

Wow... it must be really hard to find girls from Spain in the States. :eek: No wonder he fell for her.


Originally posted by Sophie
To Understand better why I havent had a boyfriend, I will put it into the words of my history Subsitute, which is a conservative football coach that stares at highschool girls clevage all hour when he asked the question "Is bush a good president."
I reply with a no, and a 14 point anaylsis and here is his reply:
*Gives me a shocked dumbfounded look*
"Missy, with that mouth you are never going to have a boyfriend"

Well... giving 14 point analysis doesn't necessarily translate into a brilliant dissertation. It could be verbal diahrrea. In any case, the "coach" was out of line with that remark.

Originally posted by Sophie
But, on a serious note, I dont really date, I mess with boys little average intelligence heads, but I dont date, because none of them are to my level.

You give women a bad name. I remember your kind very well...

take her to a dinner here, to the movies there, buy her nice present and all of that turns into: "but I thought we were just friends!" when things start to get serious.

[Akuhei]

well, I agree with sc's last comment :p. I've never been kissed before, possibly because all my friends that are girls i just... can't see me going out with *besides mayb one or two who i would if they didn't have boyfriends _ _*. 98% of the girls in my school are rich bitches *sry for the language, but it is necessary to describe them*. I wouldn't want to be alone with any of them in a room for more than 30 seconds.

[Sophie]

On the contrary, I don’t give "women" a bad name, I don’t represent the whole women’s race, and this isn’t even worth my time. Before I go in-depth to why what you said was a very antifeminist remark, you should apologize for saying that I give women a bad name, what about people? Just please shut your sexist mouth, no offense.

The 14-point remark, I believe, was well said, the democrats in my class, 5 in total, really enjoyed it and said it was presented very efficiently.

One more thing, Sound Chaser I am sorry If a girl played you out, but if they did they were dumb, unless you were a idiot as well. I don’t "do" dates, like I stated earlier, the boys that I "mess" with either deserve it, aka the people that harass other at school for being different, for example harassing the special education kids for there actions around school, or know the game as well.

Also, I am quite disappointed. All the posts that I have read that says BANG BOTH THE GIRLS and other nonsense as that hasn’t nearly gotten the whole "You give guys a bad name rap," That is why I can say that your post are a tad bit Sexist in themselves.

I did get a present from a boy once. It was a little c0cker spaniel dog in a crate that he'd sent all the way from Texas. Black and white spotted. And our little sister-Tricia, the 6-year old-named it Checkers. And you know, the kids, like all kids, love the dog and I just want to say this right now, that regardless of what they say about it, we're gonna keep it.
:whine

[Soushi Okita]

Well...we males already have a pretty "bad name"...that's why almost all girls will go on the defensive when they meet a new guy...at least until they get to know that they aren't some pervert, assuming the guy isn't a pervert. If you wanna see this in action when you are of age, go to a club and watch some pathetic fool try to talk to a girl and see how she acts toward him.

[Sophie]

Originally posted by Soushi Okita
Well...we males already have a pretty "bad name"...that's why almost all girls will go on the defensive when they meet a new guy...at least until they get to know that they aren't some pervert, assuming the guy isn't a pervert. If you wanna see this in action when you are of age, go to a club and watch some pathetic fool try to talk to a girl and see how she acts toward him.

Well arent you a little stereotypical?

But anyways, I've Been there done that, a couple of months ago, a drunkard was talking to me at a bar in Barbados, about how the black people in Newfoundland are lazy. and taking away all there jobs. Lets just say he left with a giant red wet spot on his pants.

[Soushi Okita]

Yes I am being a lil stereotypical and generalzing a bit I admit...but stereotypes tend to be grounded in some truth and it's hard not to generalize a little seeing as how I can't say how you personally would act. I can only go by what I've seen happen to other people.

Now granted not all are gonna be shot down like dogs, especially if they have any clue how to act around women. But I was just trying to point out that...for the most part, women are gonna be defensive when a guy they don't know approaches them.

[Sophie]

Well, arent guys as well? You are playing it out as girls are the only ones that are cautious, and aware. You know the whole lady in distress kind of cliche. While guys are outgoing and have a "i dont give a damn which girl i have" cliche. I hope you see where you are wrong and leaning on the sexist side.

[Soushi Okita]

I think we aren't on the same page here and I don't see how I'm being sexist...every girl I know would agree with me...they don't trust guys they don't know b/c they know that it isn't safe. I'm not talking about a girl nervous or guy being outgoing...I know that isn't gonna be true. The most outgoing person I know is a girl so whatever. I'm not trying to say that a girl is gonna be this humble lil girl sitting in the corner while the guy is this outgoing party animal or some crap like that.

I'm talking about the fact that girls have a bit more to worry about as it concerns to the guys they meet. There are so many freaks out there who's only intention is to take advantage of a girl. I would say that very few guys have to worry about some girl trying to date rape them or turn into a stalker. That is what I'm talking about. I wasn't trying to say girls are gonna be nervous and cautious when it comes to meeting new people and guys won't. Sorry if that is how it was interpreted.

[soundchazer]

Originally posted by Sophie
On the contrary, I don’t give "women" a bad name, I don’t represent the whole women’s race, and this isn’t even worth my time. Before I go in-depth to why what you said was a very antifeminist remark, you should apologize for saying that I give women a bad name, what about people? Just please shut your sexist mouth, no offense.

I'm not sexist, by a longshot. Actually I was not too keen on that remark "bang them both", but I have seen enough girls playing head games with guys to know they are the ones who make certain stereotypes about women hold.

And how is my remark antifeminist, may I ask? I didn't say anything like "the only good woman is the one that stays home, cleans the dishes and watches over the kids".

Originally posted by Sophie
The 14-point remark, I believe, was well said, the democrats in my class, 5 in total, really enjoyed it and said it was presented very efficiently.

I still have to take your word for it. Usually when one toots her/his own horn, there is some embelishment going on.

Originally posted by Sophie
One more thing, Sound Chaser I am sorry If a girl played you out, but if they did they were dumb, unless you were a idiot as well. I don’t "do" dates, like I stated earlier, the boys that I "mess" with either deserve it, aka the people that harass other at school for being different, for example harassing the special education kids for there actions around school, or know the game as well.

Again... will take your word for it as far of them "deserving" what they got from you.

Originally posted by Sophie
Also, I am quite disappointed. All the posts that I have read that says BANG BOTH THE GIRLS and other nonsense as that hasn’t nearly gotten the whole "You give guys a bad name rap," That is why I can say that your post are a tad bit Sexist in themselves.

More than sexist, I would call it animalistic, regressionist or instinctive. And yes, those guys give the gender a bad rap. You know... "you need to start thinking with your other head" and all those other nicely put cliches.

Originally posted by Sophie
I did get a present from a boy once. It was a little c0cker spaniel dog in a crate that he'd sent all the way from Texas. Black and white spotted. And our little sister-Tricia, the 6-year old-named it Checkers. And you know, the kids, like all kids, love the dog and I just want to say this right now, that regardless of what they say about it, we're gonna keep it.
:whine

The right thing to do would be to return it. Usually, that type of gift coming from "a boy" instead of "a friend" seems to have a certain message in mind. I'll let you figure it out. ;)

[GeekMeister A]

Women are all idiots.

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.

.

^Something along those lines, Sophie, would be an example of a sexist remark. Hope that clears up some confusion on your part. No need to thank me.

[Akuhei]

Sophie, I think u'd love my school, there are 5 republicans in the entire BUILDING.

[Azazis]

... The Women RACE? =p lol when did it become race instead of sexe or gender? next thing you know they'll be racist too XD

[Rajamana]

Originally posted by Sophie
Also, I am quite disappointed. All the posts that I have read that says BANG BOTH THE GIRLS and other nonsense as that hasn’t nearly gotten the whole "You give guys a bad name rap," That is why I can say that your post are a tad bit Sexist in themselves.


we're genetically designed to try and.... erm...... "polinate" all we can so its rly just all that excess testosterone that makes us wanna "bang both girls" its a simple matter of having the most off spring and keeping our genes alive... i personally think that is morally objectable and unloyal but thats just me...

[Tenshi no Rakumei]

Originally posted by Soushi Okita
Well...we males already have a pretty "bad name"...that's why almost all girls will go on the defensive when they meet a new guy...at least until they get to know that they aren't some pervert, assuming the guy isn't a pervert.

That happens? Gee....most of the time its the other way around...at least for me.

<---PERVERT!!!!!!

and I'm all for groping some innocent guy and laughing when he shots off in his pants. Okay thats mean...

:flies away laughing at previous argument and muttering about guys and never learning:

[LordBlazer]

Wow 16 and still havent ot y first kiss.

[Rage]

Ok then

[tarotgurl13]

I'm 13 and I've never been kissed u.u ...isn't that sad??

[Anime Cult]

Well I'm a Newbie..and this is the first thread I've posted on in this forum site.....Feel the tension.

I had my first, well tounge kiss. At the tender age of 13. I had kissed girls before that but they were pecks not real kisses.

I'm 13 and I've never been kissed u.u ...isn't that sad??

Thats not really sad. You have plenty of time suck face in later years. Nothing in life should be a rush!

[LadySage]

Originally posted by tarotgurl13
I'm 13 and I've never been kissed u.u ...isn't that sad??

That's not sad at all! Most people I know who have kissed had their first around 14 or 15. It's when you get to be almost the age of consent (i.e. me at 17) that it gets to be depressing.

[LakiDash]

I think it'd only get depressing in two factors.
1. If you really, really think that it matters so much. Or, and this one's more than likely-
2. That everyone you know around your age has already received their first kiss.

Not that I'm speaking from experience or anything. >.>

[otaku]

Originally posted by LakiDash
I think it'd only get depressing in two factors.
1. If you really, really think that it matters so much. Or, and this one's more than likely-
2. That everyone you know around your age has already received their first kiss.

Not that I'm speaking from experience or anything. >.>

well, all my firends have been kist before, but thats different. i'm ugly and i'm a girl that sounds like a guy.

[GWS923]

Originally posted by TwinchaosX
Personally i think any love life you have in highschool is a waste of time usually after highshool you don't ever see that person again also it causes alot of drama and it is a money sucker having a girlfriend or boyfriend but then again I'm no expert.

Generally you may be right, but my brother and his high school sweetheart are still going strong, both having just graduated from college in May. Awww... they're so cute...

[Damian Angel]

I had my first serious kiss with a girl when I was 15 (serious meaning tongue and all that good stuff)

I kissed my first guy at sixteen

[Zaphire]

Originally posted by Phelddagrif
I'm waiting till I get a car to get a girlfriend or a true kiss, but I was so a kindergarden pimp. ^_^. (Kissed at 4 :P)

That's pretty funny Phelds. :P

Originally posted by AlterGenesis-X
Never been kissed. Thus, I'm a loser. I'm 16.

I guess we're both losers! Yay!

Originally posted by Sophie
But, on a serious note, I dont really date, I mess with boys little average intelligence heads, but I dont date, because none of them are to my level.

That's rude,not all boys are average. I'd hardly refer to a few of the boys I know as average. Like Pheldie. He's a pretty smart fellow. Zirilan's pretty up there as well. As is Smips. However,they do tend to use their intellect sparingling. :P

Originally posted by tarotgurl13
I'm 13 and I've never been kissed u.u ...isn't that sad??

Oh God....I'm three years older than you and still haven't had a real kissed. If you're sad,I must be downright depressed. :rolleyes:


Anyway,as for my own tale of kissing,I had one kiss,I don't count it. When I was in about second grade,this girl I knew and I wanted to see what kissing was like. So we agreed to try. We didn't like eachother or anything,we were just curious. I'll tell you,it sucked. I think you really have to feel something for the person for it to be any good. Of course,I wouldn't know. :P

See ya'.

[Orax]

My lips are too pure to kiss them females!!

19

[genki sakura]

I was about 6 or 7, that sounds about right, and we were coming home from my friend's house and were being brought home by my friend's parents and my friend was along. So I stepped out the car and as fast as I possibly could kissed him and ran. technically..I have never been kissed....pathetic me..

[Drake]

Originally posted by Sophie
But, on a serious note, I dont really date, I mess with boys little average intelligence heads, but I dont date, because none of them are to my level.
Originally posted by Sophie
Well, arent guys as well? You are playing it out as girls are the only ones that are cautious, and aware. You know the whole lady in distress kind of cliche. While guys are outgoing and have a "i dont give a damn which girl i have" cliche. I hope you see where you are wrong and leaning on the sexist side.

actually Sophie you're the one being sexist. I didn't plan on replying to this thread, but seeing this i had to correct you. you're the one who is being sexist by saying no guy you met is up to your so called level. This shows you're really arrogant in thinking you're better then most males which may be true but to go parading this fact around shows a sexist mindset....you can choose to ignore me or you can also opt to listen and realize YOUR ERRORS



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as for my first kiss....i did get a peck on the lips in 9th grade while playing some game where you chase a girl and kiss her before she kisses a guy in the center of the room.

[TonoTheHero]

No action as of yet (17 years and counting). unfortunately my attitude toward girls is as my attitude towards exercise. I want to but I'm just to apathetic and weak minded.

[Ninja Realist]

I had my first kiss when I was 14 and its really not all that great. I was so anxious to actually kiss someone that it wasnt with someone special. I think it is better to wait to kiss someone special who you really like, then to rush it and just kisssome random person. It's not that im a prude, I just think it isnt even that great and you might as well wait. It's not like you get an orgasm from k,issing or any physical feeling to make it worth wile, it is just an expression of love and one that is meaningless if wasted on someone who you dont really want to express your love too. So if you have been kissed, whatever. And if you haven't dont worry about it.

[Airman]

Originally posted by Mira
Oh, and get your date to pay her own way. Man, what are we in the 50's? I mean I didn't leech on my dates and that was in the late 80's. :) Love need not be hard on the pocket book.

Amen, sista!

Well, I've held out on this thread long enoug...other than my "sexperimentation" between the ages of 5 and 8, my kissing has been keptto a minimum. Sadly, the only girls who have wanted the Airman Experience in the last few years have been dimwits and/or large girls that are unattractive in every way ;_;.

[Whizz]

first time was one really beautiful summer evening, birds were singing etc. romantic ehh... well that's the way it went and next thing I woke next to her in bed... hehe that's me yup... and we were couple next few years.

[hekikuu]

Seventeen... in college... so very natural... ah, those were days.

[Dennis]

Originally posted by hekikuu
Seventeen... in college... so very natural... ah, those were days.

How did you get into college at 17? The first time is the most memoralbe, and thanks to that, it is still fresh in my mind, being the only one I have recieved.

Dennis

[hekikuu]

Originally posted by thatstoodamnbad
How did you get into college at 17? The first time is the most memoralbe, and thanks to that, it is still fresh in my mind, being the only one I have recieved.

Dennis

I was of an age when I entered kindergarten at which it could have gone either way -- I was young for my class, but I would have been old if I had waited an extra year to start grade school. I took drivers' ed at the age of 14 in the 10th grade -- that was fun. Incidentally, the girl in question was from my highschool class, and was a month younger than me (presumably -- she didn't know when her birthday actually was).

Thatstoodamnbad, I seem to remember you being single a couple months ago -- congrats on the positive developments.

[Koskee]

I am going to be fifteen in a week and a half, and I have never been kissed.

[soundchazer]

Originally posted by thatstoodamnbad
How did you get into college at 17? The first time is the most memoralbe, and thanks to that, it is still fresh in my mind, being the only one I have recieved.

Dennis

Meh... it is not THAT uncommon. I entered college at 17 too. I was skipped a year in grade school because it seemed I was "too advanced" for my class.

Of course, that also meant I was bullied by older and bigger kids most of my school life :P

[Drake]

Originally posted by soundchazer
Meh... it is not THAT uncommon. I entered college at 17 too. I was skipped a year in grade school because it seemed I was "too advanced" for my class.

Of course, that also meant I was bullied by older and bigger kids most of my school life :P

heh sounds fun, being teased and bullied by older children.

[running rock]

im so sad im 14 and ive never been kissed. the girls at my school are so unattainable. its a christian school i go to. and all the teachers are aginst us. a teacher heard about to of my classmates kissing and they were both suspended.

[Risen Hell Fire]

i've been kissed twice. man no offence rock but ur shcool sucks.

[running rock]

totally it doesa friend of mine sent an apparent lewd note which describes "Sexual acts" they would do. he was suspended for the entire last Quarter

[Sage Brushfire]

well i'm 16 and half never been kissed in my life, i am wainting till i find that special some one, but so far i have not felt any feelings towards any member of female gender at my highschool and my future is looking pretty bleak in this aspect

[Dennis]

well i'm 16 and half never been kissed in my life, i am wainting till i find that special some one, but so far i have not felt any feelings towards any member of female gender at my highschool and my future is looking pretty bleak in this aspect
Keep your chin up. Some one is bound to come your way.

[Lavi]

never been kissed. that one time during my highschool freshman year doesnt count.

[UZ_white]

-.^ Never been kissed, the ladies man that I am. I attract the ladies, but I never get them for more than a day or two... Stupid speech meets... Yes, that is where I get women, at the Competitive Speech meets. The only place to find hot girls as nerdy as you are. *Fun fact! I met member #7 of UZ and the gang, ButterScotch, at a meet! And she is a girl!*

[heffer]

i'm suprised there are so many people who have never been kissed. With all the games of truth or dare and strip poker I played in middle school... Then when you include the sleep overs at the beach...

Back on topic, my first kiss was at 11, but to be completly honest, i'm not a hundred percent sure who it was with. I think it was with Amanda Thomas though.

[blackfireorchid]

well....when i was 6 or 7 it was a quick peck on the lips but that was because I was naive and my "friend"'s brother who was like 12 or 15 at the time said he'd give us candy (it was a bribe but currently it sounds pedophilic).

But with tongue it was this last summer with a guy friend who lives in Europe and it was a good-bye kiss that wasnt supposed to last that long.....or be with tongue BUT O WELL.....does that count as a first kiss......since it was a friend thing???

[RemyJ07]

matt wasted his a loooooooooooong time ago..... in 6th grade... poo...

[blackfireorchid]

EDIT: blackfireorchid, give me the name and address of your "friend's" brother - so I can make sure no kids I ever have will have the pleasure of meeting him.

And of course, tongue-kissing is just an internationally-recognized way of saying "we're just good friends" :eyebrow: .

Well....he moved to Europe... :D

He knew he woudlnt see me for another like 2-4 years....it could be a goodbye kiss.....mayb.....^.^

[otaku]

now i have info about you Blackfireorchid. muahahahahah. just dont move back to Bosnia! or else i'll stab marlena, jackie, susan, jen, kevin O (i dot think you care to much about that one)

[Elric]

First kiss (on the lips was yesterday)

Made me feel alive and well was sudden hehe.

[Smitty]

Never been kissed. I'm waiting for the perfect Republican college boy :cute.

Plus, I quite enjoy being single :D.

[shadowflamedx]

Hmm maybe it was 5 years ago in a jumper. I think that was it. Otherwise the current one was about 7 months ago.

[heffer]

Never been kissed. I'm waiting for the perfect Republican college boy :cute.

Plus, I quite enjoy being single :D.
<--perfect republican college boy right here

My heart is currently in the hands of another at the moment though.

[otaku]

I'm starting to understand why nobody makes Republican romance movies.


hahahah!
i've never been kissed

[Smitty]

perfect republican college boy right here

My heart is currently in the hands of another at the moment though.

Aww, and I live within driving distance of you and everything. :p

I'm starting to understand why nobody makes Republican romance movies.

:bews: That's just 'cause Hollywood's full of commies.

[ShinoMatrix]

First kiss was when I was 16 I believe...

It was a high school camp. I've been after this girl (cute half chinese, half cambodian) for maybe a year and we got together before then for maybe a month but it didn't work out. She broke up with me saying we should just be friends.

But I couldn't get her out of my mind. So I kept at it for another year till we got together again. And then the high school camp happened.

Quite frankly I would say she was braver than me. Of course girls and guys were not allowed to be in each others houses, but in the middle of the night on the second night we were there, she knock on the door of our house just when my friend and I were discussing scary stories. Freaked the hell out of everybody but it thrilled the pants off of me (okay, bad image there)...

We just lied down in bed and in the darkness and silence our lips just found each other. It was almost magical. Up until then I didn't even realise just how full and magnificent her lips were... but yeah, they were just nice...

End Communication.

[Smitty]

:bews: That's just 'cause Hollywood's full of commies.All that comrade-on-comrade smooching really turns me on! :love13:

You must be a George Orwell fan.

[Smitty]

Yeah, there's nothing like living in an uber-Stalinist state to get you in the mood... :rolleyes:

Mmmhmm, I totally want telescreens watching me go at it.

[ShinoMatrix]

Please keep goin...

/me goes down on his knees

(minor sarcasm intended)

[Alex]

Oi vey...this is getting way above PG-13 for me. Let's just say I shouldn't try looking too deep into the Republican imagination. You win! :thud: <---the agony of defeeet!

:lol2:

Awww... And it was just getting good! ;)

[Smitty]

Mmmhmm, I totally want telescreens watching me go at it.Oi vey...this is getting way above PG-13 for me. Let's just say I shouldn't try looking too deep into the Republican imagination. You win! :thud: <---the agony of defeeet!

Mission accomplished. :D I rock.

[Alex]

Please keep goin...

/SM goes down on his knees

(minor sarcasm intended)

:lol2:

Lady Luck just isn't with you tonight, SM. Guess she isn't into bishies, huh? ;)

[ZalorD]

And what, are, you, into, Susie? ;)

[ShinoMatrix]

Please keep goin...

/SM goes down on his knees

(minor sarcasm intended)

:lol2:

Lady Luck just isn't with you tonight, SM. Guess she isn't into bishies, huh? ;)


Tonight?

Oh yeah, you guys are on the other side of the world... the sun is glaring through my window as we speak...

Which leaves me wanting to see more exciting stuff because nothing is happening now... GLOMPING SESSION!

[Alex]

And what, are, you, into, Susie? ;)

Intelligent, interesting, affectionate, kind, playful, adrenaline-junkie alpha males with a great sense of humor. That is, to begin with. ;)

Tonight?

Oh yeah, you guys are on the other side of the world... the sun is glaring through my window as we speak...

Which leaves me wanting to see more exciting stuff because nothing is happening now... GLOMPING SESSION!

About 1:45 am here. :)

I can't believe that you, with those stunning bishie looks at your disposal, can't manage to get into some fun trouble. You should go out and play, Shino. ;)

[Koros]

Well, it's time for you guys (and one or two girls) to get a good laugh...

I am 18, and have never been kissed...gave a girl a kiss once...on the cheak so that doesn't count, but oh well...can't change the past and since my standarts are rather high, it'll be a challange finding a gf in the future

[Junko]

hehe oh do I! 12 years old behind a bush on Halloween. Hehe I couldnt get that taste out of my mouth for about a week. BUt if I could go back I wouldnt have done it. Wait to get your first kiss with someone you like. The guy I shared the moment with refuses to look my way any more. His friends think I'm a slut because they got into a fight with my brother (stupid aint it...) and so now he doesnt like me. But who cares. Wait to get your first kiss!

[heffer]

hehe oh do I! 12 years old behind a bush on Halloween. Hehe I couldnt get that taste out of my mouth for about a week. BUt if I could go back I wouldnt have done it. Wait to get your first kiss with someone you like. The guy I shared the moment with refuses to look my way any more. His friends think I'm a slut because they got into a fight with my brother (stupid aint it...) and so now he doesnt like me. But who cares. Wait to get your first kiss!
waiting for your first kiss only applies to girls. Guys hunt down the hottest girl in sight... than if that fails, you mark the next hottest target in sight and so on. While some continue to persue their orginal target if their into that unrequited love thing or shes one hell-of-a-babe.

[Veraca]

haha! what a riot question. my friends would love to know the answer to this one i bet! lol

well never been kissed and dont plan to until im at least 18 (im 15 now). i dont even have a boyfriend. i dont want a lot of things until i turn 18 and some even 22. but yeah personal reasons.

sides kissing is weird.... sweet & stuff if ya love the person but otherwise- nope

[shadowflamedx]

waiting for your first kiss only applies to girls. Guys hunt down the hottest girl in sight... than if that fails, you mark the next hottest target in sight and so on. While some continue to persue their orginal target if their into that unrequited love thing or shes one hell-of-a-babe.
Not for me sometimes girls will kiss me randomly. Very odd for me sometimes. Sometimes the girl ask can I kiss you. I decline they force or they just force.

haha! what a riot question. my friends would love to know the answer to this one i bet! lol

well never been kissed and dont plan to until im at least 18 (im 15 now). i dont even have a boyfriend. i dont want a lot of things until i turn 18 and some even 22. but yeah personal reasons.

sides kissing is weird.... sweet & stuff if ya love the person but otherwise- nope
Hmm too steal a kiss from Veraca-san would be the perfect treasure. Hurrah!I have great hopes when I'm 17

[Veraca]

.... *starts to scribble down plans to murder shadowflamedx*
My kiss aint goin ta nobody but the one i love and right now, kid, that aint exactly joo.

well ive had some girls stalking me when i was forced to cross dress a few years back... ^^;; but was never kissed thank ra! anyways, i believe that kissing should be with someone you actually love- not a one time fling kinda thing.

but oh well. i believe that a kiss is really a sweet thing to have. yup im kinda a romantic when it comes to things like this. the right person, the right time and everything! XD haha! some say im hopeless 'waiting for a knight in shineing armor'. it's hilarious how they tease me so much

[shadowflamedx]

Ive acted gay to keep girls off my friends and too keep girls off of me sometimes. Funny some people in my school think im gay. They say you gay and I say get it straight im bi.
XD haha! some say im hopeless 'waiting for a knight in shineing armor'.
.....I can wear armor
And hey your only a year older than me........*pokes yous* older kid!!!!

[Veraca]

Ive acted gay to keep girls off my friends and too keep girls off of me sometimes. Funny some people in my school think im gay. They say you gay and I say get it straight im bi.

'bi' huh? nope id say ur straight. maybe a bit bi but then again, if everyone tells the truth we all are. just some more than others

.....I can wear armor
And hey your only a year older than me........*pokes yous* older kid!!!!

firstly, i dont think id date a younger kid, second you're two school years behind me. and finally i wasnt serious about a guy in armor, though that WOULD be pretty funny to see you walking up to me in armor XD

[shadowflamedx]

Haha but remember as i said If i go to filpines we would graduate the same year!!! So your a whole year older then me. Hmm maybe the airport might let me wear armor......*shadow goes too corner being the bishi he is and plans ahead*

[Veraca]

*complete silence*

anyways..............

obviously i have a stalker on here after my lips.... so! i wonder if Moe's fanclub (who is lucky and otaku) count as stalkers too?

sides, just curious, does anyone else have the same or similar ideas of a kiss being kinda sacred? or am i just beyond weird? :p

[shadowflamedx]

*complete silence*

anyways..............

obviously i have a stalker on here after my lips.... so! i wonder if Moe's fanclub (who is lucky and otaku) count as stalkers too?

sides, just curious, does anyone else have the same or similar ideas of a kiss being kinda sacred? or am i just beyond weird? :p
Stalker!!!! weren't you the person who put stalking the botcotter of me threads shadowflamedx. Well the first few times your kissed your nervous. No clue what your doing and if your doing it right but then passion kicks in and it feels just so right(yes my hearts broken into 375 pieces). We should make an I hate shadowflamedx fan club. That would be awsome.

[soundchazer]

Well, it's time for you guys (and one or two girls) to get a good laugh...

I am 18, and have never been kissed...gave a girl a kiss once...on the cheak so that doesn't count, but oh well...can't change the past and since my standarts are rather high, it'll be a challange finding a gf in the future

Pffft... in Mexico we start giving women kisses in the cheek since day 1. That surely doesn't count.

Mmmhmm, I totally want telescreens watching me go at it
Bleh... being a Republican movie, it will probably have a censorship box and will be rated NC-17.

[Veraca]

Yup kissing on cheeks don't count. I've even had one of my male friends try to kiss me on the lips. Once he did ALMOST get me... but thanks to my body able to pull in my lips ahah! and moved my head so he kissed my ear.

I've kissed guys on the cheek before but thats rare. Any sort of contact from me to another is rare. so if i ever give you a hug or a handshake even in person you have permission to stare and faint if you'd like XD

[soundchazer]

Yup kissing on cheeks don't count. I've even had one of my male friends try to kiss me on the lips. Once he did ALMOST get me... but thanks to my body able to pull in my lips ahah! and moved my head so he kissed my ear.

I've kissed guys on the cheek before but thats rare. Any sort of contact from me to another is rare. so if i ever give you a hug or a handshake even in person you have permission to stare and faint if you'd like XD

In any case, the first kiss is important... you have to be selective about whose germs and viruses you want to share through bodily fluids.

[Veraca]

Yup very true.

I didn't even know it was something about tradition of how in Mexico a daughter and her getting a boyfriend (or kiss for that matter) was such importance. Heard it's something along the lines of even being passed through blood to uphold that tradition, hence the reason why I don't want to be kissed until I'm 18 (I'm half hispanic).
Think you can shed a lil light on that for me, SC?

[soundchazer]

Uhhh... I come from the big city... people kiss whenever. I was 17 at the time, and completely clumsy at it. My wife still jokes about it.

[Veraca]

Uhhh... I come from the big city... people kiss whenever. I was 17 at the time, and completely clumsy at it. My wife still jokes about it.

I think everybody's clumsy at their first kiss.

[shadowflamedx]

I think everybody's clumsy at their first kiss.
Well when you think how are society is today it really doesnt matter to most people they suck at kissing and still go aroung tonsil hocking people.

[Veraca]

I think everybody's clumsy at their first kiss.
Well when you think how are society is today it really doesnt matter to most people they suck at kissing and still go aroung tonsil hocking people.

how sad but true that is.... *sigh* =^_^= but! that just gives me an even more bigger reason to boycotting kissing until im 18 or 20.

here's something funny too. today young men love to french kiss, and older women love to french kiss. see how there are so many divorces these days...?

[shadowflamedx]

LOl thats funny. I think it European women give off a more passionate kiss. But a kiss from you Ver would be better than any woman in the world*prays that the gods don't let ver kill him*

[Veraca]

......i dont really care which culture or region gives better kissing... but... i do know lil kids give the funest kisses! ive got my two sorta god grandkids & they kiss my cheeks all the time. sometimes they'll pin me so i have one on each side and they each kiss one of my cheeks. two my friends tried to mimic that & i ducked :p *plans to kill him*

[shadowflamedx]

I remember when my two cousins ralph and rain lived with me. almost everyday it was kuya!!!! then them jumping on me and kissing and huggling me. I miss them..

[Veraca]

yeah when i was a bit younger i had my friends lil sisters all tackle me & huggle me and kissing my face and stuff. and it was three of them and they wouldnt ever get off of me. it was a hilarious sight! especially when they did that to him right after me.

hmm.... ya know... i dont even think TV today promotes a kiss as being a good thing or a bad thing... just something that people are vaguely aware of until they want a 'first kiss', ya know?

[shadowflamedx]

yeah but kissing is both bad or good. So is love in particular.

[Veraca]

does anyone else have the same or similar ideas of a kiss being kinda sacred? or am i just beyond weird? :pI don't know about the sacred stuff, but there is some reason behind all that. More specifically, waiting for a kiss makes all the difference for the experience when it comes, not in terms of how long you wait, but in terms of the thought, the longing, and visualization that goes into it beforehand.

In other words, a kiss is only as good as the thought and feeling that goes into it. Therefore love and sincerity make a big difference.

Some people kiss so often and so carelessly that it's best to avoid them and kiss some dead batteries instead.

yup very true.
one of my older friends walks around and he and his girl friend are in such uh.... sweet puppy love (as he calls it) that when they kiss they both blush and turn away from the other. it's really kinda sweet to watch them ^^ since neither has ever had a gf or bf before, so its funny in a way.

[shadowflamedx]

When i am kissed I normally blush. It's a matter of shyness a person has(me being a lot most of the time) and expectations and randomness.

[Veraca]

yeah but they do it in such an odd way. it makes it like they are perfect for each other. even when they hold hands and are walking to the store they blush. its kinda cute really. ^^ he says it feels like "sweet sugary puppy love that cant end"

[shadowflamedx]

Reminds me of connie and nolan. They love each other soo much and evan when they fight they are always so happy. So strange but you it was as if you know that they will be together forever. As if there very reason was too be togther for eachother to love one another.

[Veraca]

funny isnt it? how two can find each other and have such a strong bond? but then here it's sad, because their guardians hate each other and dont like the kids being together. so it sounds kinda like romeo & juliet, but not really...... considering the circumstances... anyways...

that makes me wonder... is there that perfect one for others or even for me? or is that really asking too much of reality?

[Mystic_Spike]

I don't know about the sacred stuff, but there is some reason behind all that. More specifically, waiting for a kiss makes all the difference for the experience when it comes, not in terms of how long you wait, but in terms of the thought, the longing, and visualization that goes into it beforehand.

In other words, a kiss is only as good as the thought and feeling that goes into it. Therefore love and sincerity make a big difference.

Some people kiss so often and so carelessly that it's best to avoid them and kiss some dead batteries instead.

..hmmm....you better avoid me then. First kiss when i was 12, only ever had one consistant GF and that was for 4 months,but ive been kissing on a very regular basis ever since.
im just tryin to kiss as many people as possible so that i can find the right one...
or could be to do with the ol' Dutch Courage :bik:

[ShinoMatrix]

*sigh...

I would say that that first kiss of mine is forever burned in my skull in just how it meant. Admittedly that relationship is now well and trully over (I think I've been single now for 4 years with a few burnt out attempts every so often) but no one can tell me that the special moment I had with her back then has to be forgotten.

I mean I've had countless other kisses back then, some simple pecks, some so passionate you get to the verge of ripping each others clothes off, but nothing can compare to that first one. I heard from somewhere before that your first (first in their meaning I think was your first relationship) will change you in ways you can't imagine. You will never be the same again. You will always compare every other one after it to the first. And I believe that...

So my suggestion is wait for that one moment when the stars are out and it's only the two of you gazing up at the sky above and you don't wish for anything else in your life because it was right there in front of you, waiting to be fulfilled...

[Kain]

Intelligent, interesting, affectionate, kind, playful, adrenaline-junkie alpha males with a great sense of humor. That is, to begin with. ;)

You forgot handsome.

[Alex]

You forgot handsome.

:D

I said to begin with. :) Didn't want to risk getting the carpal tunnel syndrome from all the typing a comprehensive list would require. ;) Besides, certain egos do not need any more inflating, now, do they? :p

*buzka*

[Kain]

:D

I said to begin with. :) Didn't want to risk getting the carpal tunnel syndrome from all the typing a comprehensive list would require. ;) Besides, certain egos do not need any more inflating, now, do they? :p

*buzka*

I think there's also a character cap imposed on each post, so that has to be taken into consideration, too.

[Moe]

never got kissed but i have had more interesting things.

[Alex]

I think there's also a character cap imposed on each post, so that has to be taken into consideration, too.

:lol2:

And it was. :yes: You know I think things through... Except when I don't. :eek: Not this time, though. This time I took a page from your pragmatist's manual. ;)

[alien222]

my first kiss was when i was 13. it was exciting.... he was eager to meet my lips too

[sakura_blossom]

I'm 17 now and I have yet to be kissed...kind of sad, though I'd rather wait until college in order to get my first kiss because right now all the guys in my highschool are most if not all completely immature and sexist.

[Miki Koishikawa]

Never been kissed. Want to but I'm waiting until I'm at least 16,17,or 18 and I think a first kiss should be with someone really special that you really care for

[Shouryuu]

I'm a little curious...why do you think one year will change that opinion?

[DarkKanti]

I'm 17 now and I have yet to be kissed...kind of sad, though I'd rather wait until college in order to get my first kiss because right now all the guys in my highschool are most if not all completely immature and sexist.


Guys stay that way until about the age of fifty....

[xamdbz01]

Never been kissed.....
..... and I think a first kiss should be with someone really special that you really care for
Join the club.
And your thoughts, by the way, very decent. I like the way you think.

[Saya-biki]

Guys stay that way until about the age of fifty....

Not all guys, I stoped when I was 8...
...which is probably why I haven't been kissed yet T_T Or maybe it's that I haven't taken the time to get to closer to the girls I know.

So I haven't been kissed. Unless on the cheek counts. But I know it doesn't. Not in this thread T_T

[otaku]

i think i mentioned like, ages ago that i have never been kissed.. but just to clarify, i havent. ever. my antihugness might have something to do with this...

[DarkKanti]

Guys stay that way until about the age of fifty....

Not all guys, I stoped when I was 8...
...which is probably why I haven't been kissed yet T_T Or maybe it's that I haven't taken the time to get closer to the girls I know. I trying that now...here's hoping it'll work :D


Yeah, sure you have. :rolleyes:

[otaku]

Guys stay that way until about the age of fifty....

Not all guys, I stoped when I was 8...
...which is probably why I haven't been kissed yet T_T Or maybe it's that I haven't taken the time to get to closer to the girls I know.

So I haven't been kissed. Unless on the cheek counts. But I know it doesn't. Not in this thread T_T



you must be gay. cause all real men have some immaturity in them. thats why girls have to change there standards when they get married.

[Sashi-senpai]

haha...you're all gonna call me a whore after this. I was...9. lol. I'm still a virgin though, and that's what counts! I think.

[DarkKanti]

No fair, I edited that out!
or unless you mean the 8 year old stuff...well it was around that age I couldn't write a story with the female character being defenseless. She always had to kick ass...thats just the way I am.

Probably 'cause my sister is a feminist.


No, I was talking about the immature part. Let's face it, all guys are immature! I don't consider myself sexist at all. Feminists piss me off though.

[shadowflamedx]

haha...you're all gonna call me a whore after this. I was...9. lol. I'm still a virgin though, and that's what counts! I think.
Thats ok I got my first kiss(i think) around the time too. Dk im the most mature person you'll meet ;)

[DarkKanti]

Thats ok I got my first kiss(i think) around the time too. Dk im the most mature person you'll meet ;)


Bah!

To answer the question (which I havent done yet for some reason....) I actually got my first kiss at the age of 4 during preschool. Yes, it was on the lips and it was with a girl my own age. But, I don't really count that. So, my real one would be at the age of 13.

[Miki Koishikawa]

Never been kissed.....
..... and I think a first kiss should be with someone really special that you really care for
Join the club.
And your thoughts, by the way, very decent. I like the way you think.


Thank you for the compliment I appreciate it

[xamdbz01]

Thank you for the compliment I appreciate it

You're welcome.

As for me, there's a person I'd like to save it for, but I might be just wasting my time.

[Saya-biki]

No, I was talking about the immature part. Let's face it, all guys are immature! I don't consider myself sexist at all. Feminists piss me off though.

I kinda blew everything outta porportion. Everyguys immature (hence my "POOP" post)...doesn't mean they're sexist. They should piss you off Dk. Yes, feminist are kinda annoying, especially feminists who're also anarchists. (but my sister's cool, she not as much of a feminist as she was 2 years ago, still an anarchist though :devil )But any way I think I'm just gonna delete some posts. (Gonna keep the "POOP" one though)Scratch that, I killed the "POOP" one...
I'm gonna end it, I'm gonna fill out the poll.

My god, It's like a sitcom, I learned a lesson...ow, it hurts

my age is 13 and no I haven't recieved my first kiss yet
...now what?

[shadowflamedx]

It's always good to save it for right person. Waisting it on someone you don't know sucks. *shadow goes off knowing he learned his mistake*

[Miki Koishikawa]

Thank you for the compliment I appreciate it

You're welcome.

As for me, there's a person I'd like to save it for, but I might be just wasting my time.


Don't think your wasting time because you might not know how that person feels unless you go after it. Don't worry about it okay and it's alright if they don't return the feelings there's plenty of peopl out there. But everything will be okay and I wish you luck and like I said you're not wasting time. The only way your wasting time is if your not doing anything about it thats how your wasting time. But Good luck

[Saya-biki]

But before I go... :sly: *you, scroll up to my last post*
you must be gay. cause all real men have some immaturity in them. thats why girls have to change there standards when they get married.

Maybe you're just more 'butch' than me, Otaku :p

...actually, what did that have to do with this quote? aw hell, who cares anymore. y'know what, ignore this post
*leaves*

[xamdbz01]

Don't think your wasting time because you might not know how that person feels unless you go after it. Don't worry about it okay and it's alright if they don't return the feelings there's plenty of peopl out there. But everything will be okay and I wish you luck and like I said you're not wasting time. The only way your wasting time is if your not doing anything about it thats how your wasting time. But Good luck
In that case, i must be wasting my time!! dammit!! it sucks bein shy.....

[shadowflamedx]

In that case, i must be wasting my time!! dammit!! it sucks bein shy.....
Nah id rather be shy then giving out kisses. Being shy shows you have respect and integrity.

[xamdbz01]

In that case, i must be wasting my time!! dammit!! it sucks bein shy.....
Nah id rather be shy then giving out kisses. Being shy shows you have respect and integrity.

That's a lesser degree of shyness, but you're right. Maybe my problem is that she has a boyfriend. and he's a jealous a$$

dam i can't spell anymore

[shadowflamedx]

XD yeah maybe. If it counts your on the rebound?

[xamdbz01]

i guess. i just hope i dont end up being the "revenge-sex" then gettin whooped up on.

[shadowflamedx]

If it counts im a rebound guy right now(i think). Buy a bb gun so you don't get whooped on